Greetings, goldyflocks,
If you were at your own funeral, you could gently console your family. They'd probably appreciate it. In my experience spirits at funerals are some of the easiest to perceive.
Since I hadn't been involved in seeking out afterlife contacts a few decades ago, I was surprised to encounter 2 spirits at funerals then.  This sounds gross but my mother-in-law tried to climb in my mouth! I assume she was seeking a body to be near her son. Since she was Christian I mentally invoked the name of Christ and threatened her before she would stop. It scared me and I wasn't good at holding on to loving feelings when I was scared. Actually we didn't know each other as she'd had a severe stroke before I entered her son's life.
The other funeral spirit was quite the opposite and told corny jokes about dying to be there and said dying was easy compared to watching that ceremony.
He didn't have any family and I had always laughed at his jokes before, so I guess that's how he happened to talk with me then. He still had the same personality he'd always had.
Before I came to this site and read other peoples' experiences I never trusted the 'reality of such experiences but now after reading these I see it's important to bring love into any sphere of life any time anywhere.
bets

Yes Goldyflocks, most people go to their own funerals.

Love, Mairlyn