before we are born we are in the world of spirit We chose to be born and we choose the life we are going to live only when we enter the physical world its erased from our memory as we go through life we progress our spirit and the way this happens is the fact that we hae good things come in our life and bad things come into our life and when they do we learn from it so when we pass back to spirit we have learned from these experiences which is what we are all here for to learn and go on learning in the world of spirit we are not a body with a spirit we are a spirit with a body god bless juditha