Copyrighted Logo

css menu by Css3Menu.com


 

Bruce's 5th book, a Home Study Course, is now available.
Books & Tapes by Bruce Moen
    Bruce's Blog now at http://www.afterlife-knowledge.com/blog....

  HomeHelpSearchLoginRegister  
 
Pages: 1 2 3 
Send Topic Print
my grandad [message] (Read 17182 times)
deanna
Ex Member
****


Afterlife Knowledge Member

Gender: female
Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #15 - Jan 29th, 2006 at 4:13pm
 
one bad apple dont spoil a whole bunch you get good mediums and bad ones once i found £5.00 pounds on my driveway went to the spiritualist church and my dad came through via the medium what was on and said did i enjoy the £5.00 pound he left me on the driveway thats why i believe because of the evidence what comes through deanna
Back to top
 
deanna
 
IP Logged
 
Berserk
Super Member
*****
Offline


Afterlife Knowledge Member

Posts: 979
Gender: male
Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #16 - Jan 29th, 2006 at 5:08pm
 
Deanna,

Respectfully, your new thread on good vs. bad mediums suggests that you still don't see my point.  In the example I gave, no one suggests that the medium, Blanche Cooper, was a fake.  I think she was very sincere.  But she was deceived--either by her own unconscious mind-reading of her client or by an impersonating spirit.   And as I said, her channeling of Gordon Davis was just as convincing as your mediums.  
\
Other famous mediums like Leonore Piper channeled just as convincingly.   But it was later proven that their spirit guides had never existed.   Richard Hodgson's investigation of this delusion is the most famous example.   He contacted several deceased friends who seemed to "prove" their identities with lots of verifications.   But Piper's spirit control, Jean Scliville de Phinuit gave enough information about his earthly life that his claims could be decisively tested.  It was found that Phinuit never existed!  No one has been able to explain why Phinuit lied about his true identity.  his lie calls into question whether he really put Hodgson in touch with his dead friends.

I'm not claiming to know that your contacts with your granddad are bogus.  I just want you to be aware of why so many parapsychologists are skeptical about whether these mediums actually contact the dead or rather gain their information by unconsciously reading the minds of their sitters.  On this interpretation all your amazing examples would be irrelevant. But as I said, in some cases, information is channeled that even the sitter did not know.  Those cases are far more impressive.

Don
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
Vicky
YaBB Administrator
*****
Offline


Afterlife Knowledge Member

Posts: 2170
Colorado
Gender: female
Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #17 - Jan 29th, 2006 at 8:22pm
 
There are many ways to experience and receive ESP information.  One way is through direct contact with another person's energy.

The medium she spoke of about the chicken who said, "I have your granddad here..." was implying that she had actual contact with the energy of Deanna's granddad, in other words contact with his spirit. 

Don, it sounds like you are saying that unless someone can prove that the medium was in contact with the grandad's actual spirit, then it cannot simply be assumed that actual contact was made.  However, there really is no way to prove this kind of contact in the terms which you require as far as proof.  (Do you believe that a person's conscious awareness survives death?  If you yourself could experience sensing someone's energy would you then believe it yourself, or what kind of proof would you think you needed in order to believe?)

When mediums talk about feeling energy, they are describing that person's energy vibration, it is a "signature" for that person.   

I would have to think that not all mediums receive their information in the same way, so you cannot group all mediums into the same category as far as how they are receiving information.   However, "mere ESP" and "mere mind-reading abilities" are still very fascinating.  I mean, how is any kind of ESP by any means not intriguing?  What you referred to as mere mind-reading is still a process of one person's energy communicating with another's, whether consciously or unconsciously.  If you look at it as our minds being an energy field, and if I can hear or know your thoughts, then wouldn't you say that I am tapping into your energy field?  Whether or not I sense you as who you are along with that ESP info does not change the fact that our energys had contact.  Now, when it comes to talking about real contact between a deceased person and a living person, you have to take into consideration that the deceased person is making a conscious effort to make this energy contact as well.  In that way, they are able to be sensed and felt along with the ESP information they are trying to relate. 

I myself have had many experiences of feeling or sensing someone's energy around me.  Usually along with this feeling comes some ESP information that I could not have known through regular means of perception.  However, not all ESP experiences come about through feeling someone's energy, as it is not a requirement for ESP.  Like I said, there are many different ways to experience ESP.  Frankly, ESP is fascinating no matter how it is attained. 

About feeling someone's energy and having communication with them, that is something that you yourself would have to experience in order to know it and understand it.  I don't think it can be proven, and even if it could be proven to satisfy one person, it wouldn't satisfy all.  The bottom line is, you can only know what you know through your own direct experience.  Experience is knowledge.  Anything else is just belief. 

I myself wouldn't believe just anybody, but I have had enough of my own experiences to know that these experiences are possible. 
Back to top
 

Author of Persephone's Journey (Amazon.com)

http://www.vickyshort.blogspot.com/
WWW 198267046870499  
IP Logged
 
Black_Napkins
Ex Member


Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #18 - Jan 30th, 2006 at 1:35am
 
Quote:
one bad apple dont spoil a whole bunch you get good mediums and bad ones once i found £5.00 pounds on my driveway went to the spiritualist church and my dad came through via the medium what was on and said did i enjoy the £5.00 pound he left me on the driveway thats why i believe because of the evidence what comes through deanna



A deceased relative left you physical money?...Did it float there? how does one on another plane move a physical object/s that far? Assuming the money was not near your driveway.

I wish my dead relatives would stop holding out, if this is the case. :p
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
deanna
Ex Member
****


Afterlife Knowledge Member

Gender: female
Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #19 - Jan 30th, 2006 at 3:53pm
 
the spirit world is capable of a lot of things black napkins deanna
Back to top
 
deanna
 
IP Logged
 
Bruce Moen
YaBB Administrator
*****
Offline



Posts: 587
YaBB Admin Land
Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #20 - Jan 30th, 2006 at 5:41pm
 
Don,

In your post to Deanne you said:

>> Please believe what meets your needs, but at least try to grasp the alternative interpretation.  That is, the medium could have read your mind about the chicken, the lollipop, and the pigeon and then misinterpreted this as a contact with your granddad. <<

We have no way of testing either hypothesis, in this case;

hypothesis #1 the medium was actually in contact with the deceased Grandad,

hypothesis #2  the medium was reading Deanna's mind.

The historical evidence you site with other mediums during other times really has no bearing on the hypothesized contact between this medium and Deanna's Grandad.  We could each site historical examples to support real contact or false contact by mediums in the past to support our own hypothesis. 

We can argue our own favored hypothesis, and attempt to get others to admit ours might be the correct one, or believe ours in place of theirs.  But, since we can't test either hypothesis, in this case, wouldn't you agree, Don, that Deanne's hypothesis is as equally likely to be true as yours?

Deanne's experience is at least anecdotal evidence that real contact may be possible, and points to the need for structured research to settle the question.  What is needed to settle the question of the reality of afterlife contact is a well designed experiment, data gathering and data analysis.  Lacking that, the hypothesis remains untested and is neither proven nor disproven.


Bruce
Back to top
 
WWW  
IP Logged
 
Jambo
Full Member
***
Offline


1987, a great year for
the human race.

Posts: 182
UK
Gender: male
Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #21 - Jan 30th, 2006 at 8:03pm
 
Quote:
Deanna,

Other famous mediums like Leonore Piper channeled just as convincingly.   But it was later proven that their spirit guides had never existed.   Richard Hodgson's investigation of this delusion is the most famous example.   He contacted several deceased friends who seemed to "prove" their identities with lots of verifications.  
the sitter did not know.  Those cases are far more impressive.

Don


Hi don ,

What you have to take into account is Hodgson's famous skeptical view of this subject.  The following extract is from Victor Zammit's website on Piper:
"Clearly, Hodgson's objections were not technically valid. Writers on psychic phenomena, even contemporary writers, have been too enthusiastic to write favorably about what Hodgson claimed about mediums. But these writers repeatedly,

• failed to show that he was not technically professionally qualified to investigate psychic phenomena,

• failed to show that he was not technically competent,

• failed to show that he was under a great deal of pressure from the leadership of the SPR to find against mediums.

• failed to show that, Hodgson's presumption of fraud was a deliberately uncontrolled extraneous negative and intervening variable,

• failed to show that the onus shifted onto Hodgson to technically rebut the evidence produced by Mrs Piper about the afterlife,

• failed to criticize Hodgson for not using science to reject the afterlife,

• failed to show that he was not sensitive to nor did he have the essential psychic knowledge to properly administer validity and reliability tests,

In his initial objections, Hodgson himself failed to show that:

• his claim about telepathy was a valid claim,

• Mrs Piper had the competence to read other people's minds,

• Mrs Piper, while unconscious at a seance, could read minds,

• Mrs Piper's telepathy extended to those who were hundreds of miles away from the seance while she was unconscious,

• the accurate information was not coming from intelligences from the afterlife,

• the information was being transmitted directly from a split mind,

There is no escaping the issue of who had the technical burden of proof. The onus clearly was on Hodgson to prove that his objections were valid. But he did not prove anything. He just said words to the effect, '... I can't prove anything at all ... I can't prove fraud, I can't prove cheating, I can't prove trickery against Mrs Piper but ... trust me ... do not believe anybody else except me ... just believe me because only I have the truth about these things but no one else has ..'

That kind of personal, intentionally prejudicial, unsubstantiated dogmatic claim was not the professional way to present rebuttals then, nor is it to-day."

Now is it just me, or is Hodgson a complete fool who is constantly contradicting his OWN claims????




Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
Black_Napkins
Ex Member


Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #22 - Jan 31st, 2006 at 8:06pm
 
Quote:
the spirit world is capable of a lot of things black napkins deanna


I'm afraid I just have a hard time with the idea that any spirit would spend alot of energy on moving 5 dollars, to your driveway.

From what i understand, it takes alot of energy for a spirit to move,appear,speak/lower their vibration to the physical. To entertain the idea, that someone would move 5 dollars (a reasonably small amount of money) from point A to B seems like alot of work.

I would think it would be a better suited job for wind/loose pockets. Hell, i've found a 50 dollar bill on the street once, i went with the simpile explanation.
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
deanna
Ex Member
****


Afterlife Knowledge Member

Gender: female
Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #23 - Jan 31st, 2006 at 8:13pm
 
i see your point black napkins tell you the truth you made me laugh  but spirit probaly thought because i was so heartbroken at the time because i,d just lost dad and i,ve never got any money  that the £5.00 would cheer me up a bit because when dad was alive he used to give me some money to help me out a bit it wasnt a lot because he didnt have a lot himself but he was that kind of dad he would give you his last penny deanna
Back to top
 
deanna
 
IP Logged
 
Berserk
Super Member
*****
Offline


Afterlife Knowledge Member

Posts: 979
Gender: male
Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #24 - Jan 31st, 2006 at 9:31pm
 
Jambo: "Now is it just me, or is Hodgson a complete fool who constantly contradicting his own claims?"

Jambo, its just you! Grin  Hodgson changed his mind and eventually embraced Piper's channeling because she channeled so many accurate details from several of his deceased friends and acquaintances.   Leonore Piper is arguably the most impressive American medium of all time.   But the Gordon Davis case casts doubt on the wisdom of Hodgson's about-face.  Davis, a drop-in communicator seemed to prove his identity and yet was later found to be alive in London, oblivious to his alleged channeling as a deceased soul. 

I've decided to start a new thread that rather comprehensively explores the relevance of mediumship to the afterlife hypothesis.   My thread will respond directly to Bruce Moen's earlier questions posed on this thread.  My thread will specifically assess these three alternative explanations: ESP, spirit impersonations, and genuine contact with the dead.  I'm currently refreshing myself on the best cases.  So stay tuned.

Don
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
Jambo
Full Member
***
Offline


1987, a great year for
the human race.

Posts: 182
UK
Gender: male
Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #25 - Jan 31st, 2006 at 11:44pm
 
Lol it is just me!!!

Thinking about it again has made me decide, if a medium like Piper can make a full-blown skeptic  do a total u-turn  on his own views of the subject area then theremust be something going on or Piper and Hodgson were more "intimate" (nudge nudge  Wink  Wink) then they let the public know.

I am looking forward to reading your posts and will be doing some deeper research on this area myself and will try to add some useful posts,

Good luck with the research Don

Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
recoverer
Super Member
*****
Offline


Afterlife Knowledge Member

Posts: 5027
Gender: male
Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #26 - Feb 1st, 2006 at 7:34pm
 
When a medium communicates with somebody they don't just tell people items of verification, they also pass on messages. Where do these messages come from?

Also, if it is possible to telepathically communicate with somebody close to you, why couldn't you telepathically communicate with somebody from the spirit World? After all, space shouldn't have anything to do with it, and telepathy is how spirits communicate in the spirit World.
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
Berserk2
Super Member
*****
Offline



Posts: 844
Gender: male
Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #27 - Jun 1st, 2012 at 10:21pm
 
Vicky, here is Deanna's "Granddad" thread, to which Bruce responds, the thread that prompted my Mential Mediumship thread.  You are right: reposting the original thread makes my quotation of Bruce more meaningful.

Don
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
ottawa1
Junior Member
**
Offline


ALK Member

Posts: 71
Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #28 - Jun 2nd, 2012 at 11:05am
 
This quote from Bruce is very important in terms of evidence:

"The most convincing evidence comes when the information provided by the deceased person is know only to that deceased person, and then verified within physical reality."

I would argue that very often the medium is "Simply" picking up info from living minds but if a medium can obtain info that only the deceased knew, and this info was later validated, this seems like strong evidence of the potential for an afterlife. I would like to read about such evidence so if anyone can point me to such cases I would be grateful!
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
recoverer
Super Member
*****
Offline


Afterlife Knowledge Member

Posts: 5027
Gender: male
Re: my grandad [message]
Reply #29 - Jun 2nd, 2012 at 12:24pm
 
I believe that there are some genuine mediums who know that it is more than a matter of reading minds. When you communicate with spirits more than picking up on thoughts can be experienced. You can feel that you are interacting with a spirit. Spirits can do things such as move up to you and hug you in a non-physical way. They can share their feelings and humor with you.  You can tell that a conscious/thinking being is trying to communicate with you.

The kind of experiences I spoke of above don't go away because of how one person responded in a test situation.

We need to remember that spirits aren't in one part of the physical universe while we are in a completely different part. It is a matter of whether or not we can make an energetic connection. Therefore, our deceased loved ones can never be too far away from us.

Experience matters more than intellect based opinions.
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
Pages: 1 2 3 
Send Topic Print


This is a Peer Moderated Forum. You can report Posting Guideline violations.