spooky2
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Tony, I agree. Without competition it's more heavenly than with. For example: I play a musical instrument. Sometimes I felt anxious and tensioned when one came around who plays the same instrument, because I guessed this guy plays better than me, I'm such bad, just a bloody beginner. Okay, I forced practising until I became better and better. The interesting thing was, this competition feeling remained until I became aware of it. I'm working to remove it totally, and it's a complete different approach. It's to enjoy what I do. Competition kills enjoying, because you never get a rest and never come to peace. So, it's much better to let yourself be inspired by other people rather than to feel competitioned by others. Comparison is ok, but competition drives you crazy in the long run I think. Spooky
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