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Pure Unconditional Love does not excuse inappropriate behavior.

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I agree with Matthew.

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ok, I'll give you that. but still I'm trying to figure out what this thread has to do with remaining on topic?
maybe we could try to start a new topic with the title "what is unconditional love energy exactly?"
so maybe I'll go do that unless another would do the honor. for now, I would agree with Kathy and Mathew, to move this thread to off topic-we have hit another stalemate insofar as staying on topic and maybe we should not talk about personal subject matter unless it relates to the whole of the board in some way. I do not wish to attack anybody's viewpoint but we are in need of healing. Bruce, if you are out there, it would be a suggestion that we could have a room set up for "Healing" purposes only. then when a member seems to be hurting really badly about something we don't understand too well, we could all gather there for that purpose only and maybe we could see some miracles take place? I'm up for it. we could call it The Closet Healer, or just The Closet? because the closet suggests a reference to prayer, and prayer is very productive, I think we can agree on that point about prayer, although I know many of you are not religious...then we could come up with another term perhaps..maybe this: The waiting room.  you know, just before giving birth, you go into the waiting room. something like that. I thought about the complaint room, but then we might get too many complaints! well, I don't know, it's like up to all of us what kind of board we generate here. love, alysia

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With pure unconditional love, who cares?  I mean isnt that the point, to unconditionally love this thread regardless of its conditions? Or unconditionally love my negative comments to you?  Or my disagreement with the fluff new age suggestions of unconditional love? Arent you supposed to be purely unconditionally loving these things?

Anyway, Donald berserk has started another thread branching off from this one dealing with metaphysical values which i am challenging there, as well.



And did everyone notice DocM's attempt at negation of this thread?, though pages ago he claimed he wouldnt be back to reply in this thread?

Maybe he feels he's being attacked too....

Just because someone professes PUL doesn't mean that they are perfect at it, or even good at it. Most people would agree that lying is not good, but how many of us can say we have never lied?

Those who expect others to be perfect before saying anything are those who will not listen to anyone who is not perfect, thereby relieving themselves of the respnsibility of listening because they know no one is perfect.

I agree this thread should be closed.

Bob

Raz, you baited me well. 

Look at my post.  I said that I had said all I had to say on the topic of "right or wrong," and that I wouldn't post again on that topic (which the thread lost track of anyway).

I am not certain why you felt the need to mention that, but you must have something better to do with your time than spam up this board.

Discussion is fine about ideas.  When it gets personal, it may be fine in an off topic area if both sides agree to pursue it. 

DocM

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No, it didnt lose track., i mentioned before this thread was about right and wrong before it even started.  And again notice how the judgement of right and wrong is being expressed throughout.

You dont even need a topic specifically about judgement though, it permeates all topics!..lol

Alysia,

We are connected.  Since you did see me over there (I have no memory of it), we must have made this connection stronger while we were together, since you are now picking up on me like that.

Bob

Alysia,

You don't need to worry about your vocabulary. You are wise and well understood.

Love,
Bob

I got you confused with Marilyn, who said that she saw me at the Humor Center. Sorry. Even so, I know we are connected so I don't doubt that we do see each other over there.