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Raz

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Re: Newbie - Worry
Reply #135 - Dec 14^th, 2005 at 12:13pm

Where are the personal attacks? Have i stuck a knife in anyone here? Have i put cyanide in your glass of wine? I am attacking no one. No one is being harmed. How many times do i have to say that?
Ill call you a name, but does that name harm you? or do i harm you? no, you harm yourself according to YOUR beliefs. Personal attack from words? from me,...please.

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Reply #136 - Dec 14^th, 2005 at 3:43pm

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I can't believe my post started all this!!!

Right now I'm trying to deal with my own psychological issues and be OK with myself living today (I haven't been eating, been very depressed, etc).

I know I've opened up a can of worms in my head that will probably never go away (like those people in Russell Crowe's head at the end of "A Beautiful Mind"), but I hope to deal with it the best way I can.

I need to start some serious meditation to relax myself and open myself up to whatever is out there.

Cookies..u didn't do anything wrong by starting this thread and I hope we can get back to whatever topic you started; you might have to guide us on that, but wouldn't blame you if you vacated the area; I see a lot of land mines myself here. anyhoo, theres not a whole lot of answers on this forum right now, not in a personal way, so just don't take the blame for it is all I want to say. lets face it, this forum is just like life itself and heres what some of us do...

I'm so nice, thats the first time I got to use that icon, so thanks whoever inspired me..

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Rob_Roy Super Member Offline Posts: 539 New Hampshire, USA Gender:	Re: Newbie - Worry Reply #137 - Dec 14^th, 2005 at 5:46pm Alysia, Are you now a rootin', tootin' cowgirl? Bob
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LaffingRain Super Member Offline Choose this Day Posts: 5249 Arizona Gender:	Re: Newbie - Worry Reply #138 - Dec 14^th, 2005 at 7:49pm Bob, I love the cowboy days truly I do, only they didn't have long lives, but guess that was ok..I really don't know how to answer your question without seeming to have a large selfish ego and get sued for slander of my own self...
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Re: Newbie - Worry
Reply #139 - Dec 14^th, 2005 at 9:18pm

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Where are the personal attacks? Have i stuck a knife in anyone here? Have i put cyanide in your glass of wine? I am attacking no one. No one is being harmed. How many times do i have to say that?
Ill call you a name, but does that name harm you? or do i harm you? no, you harm yourself according to YOUR beliefs. Personal attack from words? from me,...please.

Well, y'know, you haven't been exactly, er, polite. And to quote Billy Shakestick, "If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?"

In a roundabout way, I'm kind of saying that maybe even if you're not physically hurting somebody, you're not being very accomodating towards them, right? Right?

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Rob_Roy Super Member Offline Posts: 539 New Hampshire, USA Gender:	Re: Newbie - Worry Reply #140 - Dec 14^th, 2005 at 10:40pm Alysia, It was a rhetorical question, a joking question, playing off the farting smilie you used. Bob
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Raz

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Reply #141 - Dec 14^th, 2005 at 11:27pm

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Well, y'know, you haven't been exactly, er, polite. And to quote Billy Shakestick, "If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?"

In a roundabout way, I'm kind of saying that maybe even if you're not physically hurting somebody, you're not being very accomodating towards them, right? Right?

Sasuke, Im not running a hotel here, ok?
As long as you admit there is no harm being done you can stuff your claims of personal attack. Unless i should feel guilty for being less than polite, in your eyes?, sorry, i dont.

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LaffingRain Super Member Offline Choose this Day Posts: 5249 Arizona Gender:	Re: Newbie - Worry Reply #142 - Dec 15^th, 2005 at 12:05am Quote: Alysia, It was a rhetorical question, a joking question, playing off the farting smilie you used. Bob oh, I didn't get the connection between cowgirls and farts. sorry! is there a connection?
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LaffingRain Super Member Offline Choose this Day Posts: 5249 Arizona Gender:	Re: Newbie - Worry Reply #143 - Dec 15^th, 2005 at 12:11am Raz, it's an attack. u have diaherra. u need to take your own cure. Susuke is very perceptive. lets talk about genuine experiences here and get back on track and stop exploring your diaherra, go see a counselor, go see your mom, just go see somebody.
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Raz Ex Member	Re: Newbie - Worry Reply #144 - Dec 15^th, 2005 at 12:15am This is a genuine expereince. Though it doesnt meet your spiritual criteria, this I understand.
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Raz Ex Member	Re: Newbie - Worry Reply #145 - Dec 15^th, 2005 at 12:20am and why the need to defend Susake. she is not a victim of me.
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Reply #146 - Dec 15^th, 2005 at 9:01am

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and why the need to defend Susake. she is not a victim of me.

I'd be exceptionally pleased if you could at least try to spell my name right. =\ It's Sasuke.

You're not running a hotel, no. I've never said so. However, you are in an online community where people are supposed to feel safe sharing their thoughts and experiences, and you're not really, y'know, contributing to that too much. I admit you're getting a little picked on back, but that's sort of a reflexive thing when somebody else feels offended, right?

There's nothing wrong with disagreeing, it's just how you go about doing it. Try being a little bit less rough, okay?

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Rondele Ex Member	Re: Newbie - Worry Reply #147 - Dec 15^th, 2005 at 9:52am Sasuke- Yes, folks can get a little rough on this board. Especially those folks who always profess having so much PUL. Strange how their PUL vanishes faster than an ice cube on the equator as soon as someone posts something that they don't like. Gee I guess all that pure love isn't so unconditional after all, huh?
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DocM Super Member Offline Afterlife Knowledge Member Posts: 2168	Re: Newbie - Worry Reply #148 - Dec 15^th, 2005 at 10:38am Bruce, If you are reading, I would close this thread, or edit out all extraneous comments and cut it down to two pages. It has gone too far off the discussion path Matthew
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Raz

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Reply #149 - Dec 15^th, 2005 at 12:09pm

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I'd be exceptionally pleased if you could at least try to spell my name right. =\ It's Sasuke.

Sasuke, there i spelt your name right this time, as im sure having your name mispelt or mispronounced brings you such harm, and you will no doubt think thats an attack too.

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However, you are in an online community where people are supposed to feel safe sharing their thoughts and experiences, and you're not really, y'know, contributing to that too much.

go figure, this is what i am sharing. is how individuals are prone to think they are being harmed or not safe. I understand you have a community here where pul is the absolute, and this is (for all who suscribe to pul here) a safety mechanism. Though its something i disagree with and its something i will argue

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I admit you're getting a little picked on back, but that's sort of a reflexive thing when somebody else feels offended, right?

Yes, but i dont reinforce them as a personal attack or percieving insults to be harmful to my person.

And besides,
Are you making an excuse of how laffingrain strayed from pull to insult me? So what, i half expect pul'ers to be hypocrites, and as i have been saying from the get go, the penchant of pul'ers to want to deny and negate anger or unsavory sentiments.
Actually i was a little surprised by laffingrain's comments because they arent nearly as light and loving as her pul should be.
Thats what i have been testing here is this claim of pul, for one.

Rondele has the idea, anyway, and he said it well.

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