Hi Eileen,

What results have you had when you tried this method?  Do you feel comfortable describing it here? 

You won't be sending him away by trying this method. It is a guideline for making contact.  You don't know if he is in need of any assistance, but your trying to assist in this way won't hurt anything.  If nothing else, he will get the message of your love, thoughts, and intentions.  I believe and trust using any of these methods, Bruce's and TMI's, etc, but when you are desparate and stressed, depressed, or whatever, it may make it more difficult for you to get any results. 

I truely believe he can hear what's in your heart and in your thoughts, but if you want to have verification for yourself, may I also suggest that you pay close attention to your dreams?  I believe contact through dreams is much easier because we are in a more relaxed state and are more able to receive outside information than when we are awake. 
Love, Vicky

Hi Eileen-

Both Vicky and Marilyn are right on target.

The reason we do not have continuing contact with people after their bodies fall off is that we, our selves, refuse to make contact.

The two basic factors involved with limiting our access to the souls in the interlife phase are typically (1) residual emotional loading that we impose upon relationships, (2) presumptive conditions and limitations of our nature through which we distinguish our own nature from that of the dead.

In order to handle these barriers to easy contact we use two general approaches. First, we meditate, involving a relaxation of everyday perspective, substituting focus into an abstract extension of our reality into the spirit world. This requires abandonment of strong emotional states, such as being miffed about the sheer gall of someone whom we love and cherish, who has had the unmitigated nerve of dying, and all of that without our permissions.  (It's amazing how few people are willing to accept the death of loved ones without some degree of recrimination.  In fact, we have a right to resent the changes required by our loss, but we also have the right  to forgive, to love and to release both our lost loved ones, and also ourselves. The key to this is to realize that what you were previously interpretating as resentment was actually love, in a frustrated mode)

The second approach is to allow our mind to release expectations about "the way that things have to be". The sole valid expectation is that in a rational state processes and structural elements will maintain a logical relationship, and in a non-rational continuum things will seem mixed up. If you review the thousands of hours of remarks on this site you'll notice that about half of the discussions deal with "how it's gotta be" plus dozens of alternative perspectives, and the other half deal with remarks about souls who have gotten stuck in this or that condition and have stopped reasoning (abandoning the logical continuum) in favor of maintenance of ome kind of fantasy, state of pride, or some other hangup.

In order to get in touch with Michael, first, allow Michael to get in touch with you in any way that he pleases. That includes dreams, electrical phenomena light blinking lights, oices that enter the mind as you drift toward sleep, or whatever. Second, recognize that those feelings of resentment are love, and allow yourself to accept them again, rather than to feel cut off. This is called "pure unconditional love" = PUL.  PUL wll be a simple solution to this, and amazingly to many of the other issues of life. 

You are not doing something "wrong". This experience is a landmark step in your spiritual awakening.  Your feelings are quite normal , and exceedingly common. Once you've passed this seeming "stumbling block" you will discover that it has become a stepping stone upon which you can raise not only your own awareness, but that of others around you. As you extend the new perspective outward, you will continue to grow and benefit mutually with others.

Love-
dave