Spitfire...I care to disagree with you on your comment: Life does not evolve around love.
In fact it is just the opposite.....life DOES evolve around love. Before you can fully appreciate your life and all the things around it and in it, you must first learn that without love, you have nothing.
True real meaning of love is a sense of outstanding peace within you and a love for all things that surpasses all external things.
With true love you cannot feel hate. You do not recognize borders. You do not feel negative. You do not 'want' for better things.
Instead you are content, peaceful, sympathetic, understanding, caring, tolerant...and so very loving of everything and everyone.
That is the love that makes the world go 'round. Sorry....but that is the great truth about the matter.

To find that kind of love and begin to live life to it's fullest, you need to change your way of thinking...and open up your heart and feel the true goodness that comes to you...be it in the wag of a tail of a friendly dog running to you...or the smile on a child's face....the sound of the ocean waves ....the smell of a newborn baby.
All the things that money can't buy....and when you can feel the joys of these things in your heart, then you will be well on your way to finding what true love is.

Spitfire and WF

When one day you booth have a son (i guess you're not prepared for it) You will understand love as it really is. (than you booth will stop of sayng that bla,bla about love that you think you know what it is.)

And you will discover that it doesn't matter what that person does or where that person is You will always be happy once that person (yuur son) is happy. But I think one of you know nothing about love beacuse of a empty life and the other is in panic and afraid of something that have happended.

I got tired people doesn't seen to evolve with soft words.

Sorry I'm a bad Guy.

Despite the fact that I unfortunately have never experienced an OBE, my beliefs come from my studies of the Spirits Doctrine (faith).
I must say that we are here to exchange our experiences (the ones who had it) in order to help each other to figure out what we are dealing with.
Not to convince the ones who don’t share the same experiences that what we are going through is truth. It was never the goal here.

I was talking about LOVE and I indeed know what it is. Some thing that you’ll have to find your self.

PS: The one with the empty life is WF I classified you as the one in panic.
(I'm not teasing you it's what I feel)

Spitfire,

If the brain expansion means that I’m going to change the way I feel about the life to start to feel like you do, please let me in my joy full ignorance.

Hi Kardec...........great responses here. I like what you have said....there is nothing more beautiful and loving in the world to see a child smile....to feel their love for you and to feel the contentment in their heart. Kardec, you are a peaceful person and you know what real love is. That is the kind of love that makes the world go around.
However, I think that there are members here who just get their pleasure from hearing themselves spout off. Seriously, I cannot believe some of the rubbish that I have read here this morning! It isn't worthy of further responses. There are those who just enjoy getting under other people's skin and I believe this is just one of those examples.
A very small part of learning on this board is in learning who is here in honesty and sincerity and who is here to simply make a fool of themselves......which are the ones who need to be weeded out and left to be on their own.
For myself, I have much more learning to do and my time does not need to be wasted by defending something as basic as what love really is....and to hear that money is what makes the world a great place!!
For you Spitfire and White Feather....how happy are you going to be when your money runs out?? Are you going to be happy then? When you are broke? Are you going to be happy when you can't put food in your tummy? Pay your rent?
No of course not. You won't be happy at all.
However, when you have truely found the real meaning of love and have secured that peaceful feeling in your heart...then you will be happy whether you are flat broke or filthy rich.........it will not matter either way the size of your bank account.
Money may make life easier for you...but it is not going to give you everlasting happiness....or even enough happiness to get you thru to the next payday.
However....chose if you will to wallow in your shallow beliefs that money will bring you happiness and that love is such a farce that needs to be proven.

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I never claimed to be happyier then you. i just said people use "Love" as the foundation of there beliefs, and i dont understand how they do this when they cannot even explain what love is.

People use awareness all the time, eventhough they can't explain precisely what it is. It is just this magnificient thing that exists. The same can be said of pure, unconditional love.

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