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Reply #45 - Oct 28th, 2005 at 8:48am
 
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Got Emo?

Listen, guy. A lot of people on this board don't like to offend anybody else, which is wonderful and I praise them for it, but I'm as blunt as a wooden club; you're not going to get that from me.

These people are genuinely attempting to help you find what love is, if you're actually even interested, and you keep treating them with disrespect. That's both degrading them and yourself, you know that? It's not healthy in any possible way.

If you truly believe denying human nature, insulting, jeering, and hurting others and yourself makes you strong, and you truly believe that everyone here is weak because we actually give a damn about the world we live in, why don't you just scamper off and do whatever macho thing it is that you do?

Love is a heightened connection to someone that is, I believe on a physical level, marked by hormone levels in the brain. Love on a simply instinctual basis is merely the need to protect one's mate to ensure offspring.

The fact that we can't explain love on an emotional basis doesn't say a thing about its existence. You can't see the wind, but you feel its effects.

Stop insulting our intelligence and your own.


If you even bothered to read what others had written, you would see i only respond in kind to what i recieve.

Since your being so blunt, i shall in return be blunt with you.

Few people on this board, can even consider love as only a physical response produced by the body.
They think love is the foundation for existance.

When i/others dont post what they like, they start with the attacks, which dont really bother me, since i give as good as i get.

I never said anyone was weak for trying to make the world better, nor would i.

I said people who believe in things which theres peanuts for evidence are weak.

As for the wind, i can harness the wind, i can tell you how it works, were it will be strongest/weakest. i can reproduce wind whenever i wish to, i can feel the wind on my skin. i have mountains of evidence.

The type of universal love, which most here, base there entire lives upon, have no evidence at all. They cant give me evidence, they cant even give me a small example.

If you feel like insulting me more, i'll be back later.












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Spitfire - about "weaklings"...
Reply #46 - Oct 29th, 2005 at 12:40am
 
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Spitfire said...
You really anger me.
Some people on this board are complete weaklings.
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Hello again, Spitfire.
Tell you what. You and me aren't friends and we never will be. I wouldn't have it any other way, and I think you'd say the same. "Facts is facts"... I think you can dig that.
But I've gotta give the Devil his due...
You AREN'T the Dumbsky Sh!tsky that I had you figured for, you are a thinking individual. That's a GOOD thing in my book. If I didn't think that you were, I wouldn't be speaking to you, period.
I'll even go so far as to say, my response to you on 29 September was UNWARRANTED... I'll admit my blood was boiling to start with about my cousin, and something about your post set me off. What the Hell, eh?
Nobody's Mr. Perfect... Not me, and not you.
'Nuff said on that. You call other people "weaklings" on account of their ideas.
What do you mean? What is "weakness" in your book, Spitfire? I'm curious.
Also, I must admit, your arguments and attitude intrigue me, in spite of myself. (I daresay you and I have more in common than EITHER of us would like to admit. To wit, we are probably the two most opiniated bastards on this entire forum..!)
So - let's grab the bull by the horns.
I hereby repeat my invitation to P.M. me, and we can talk some more in a PRIVATE venue. Why are you here, for starters? No accusation intended, I'd like to see what got you interested in this stuff, and what you'd like to find out about it.
Why not have a civilized exchange of ideas, you and I?
Are you game?

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And a little something extra, Spitfire...
Reply #47 - Oct 29th, 2005 at 2:05am
 
About love.
Now, I don't claim to really know what it is either. It is one of those "slippery" concepts. (Perhaps it is about placing another's happiness and welfare above your own?)
Consider this for a moment. You're young...
Do you not dream of your ideal lover, even if you've never been in love before? If not, what kind of 18-year-old guy ARE you?
Have you not thought about what you would do if, say... you and her were cornered by a group of thugs?
Now remember, this is your DREAM GIRL, the one and only, She who you met by dumb luck and are CERTAIN you'll never find her like again (NOT some skank you picked up for a "quickie".) She is... She who makes your heart pound for reasons you don't understand... She who makes you feel like the king of the world when she's near... She who makes your work day go by quickly, as you anticipate the pleasures that await in her arms (and elsewhere..!)
(And YES, some lucky few of us DO find such a lover in this lifetime. You're young... could you be one of them? Quite possibly!)
Would you not order her BEHIND you, and be perfectly willing to kill and maim... or BE killed/maimed... to defend her? Would not your attitude LITERALLY be, "OVER MY DEAD BODY"?
Would you not rush into a burning building, to save her?
Imagine Saddam Hussein kidnapped the two of you, and said that ONE of you would be killed (I'll make it easy for you, it's by painless lethal injection.) Would you not say, "I, NOT her!"???
OR...
Would you run as fast as your legs could carry you from the thugs, leaving your lover to her fate...
Would you stare at the burning building, and make some reptilian calculation of "better her than me..."
Would you grovel before  Saddam, and blubber: "kill HER, only PLEASE, PLEASE let me live?"
If you'd answer the above three questions with a "yes" then I truly PITY you, Spitfire... and I pity the woman who's fool enough to "settle" for you (if such a dumb bunny exists..!)
I'd go so far as say you had a personality disorder if you did - and I wouldn't bet much money on your prospects for future happiness either. I'd predict a miserable future of loneliness, looney pills and day treatment programs for you... that's a typical long-term outcome for personality disorder cases. Or maybe prison (depending on how you react when provoked.)
But I DON'T think you would answer "yes" to the above. I think you're SMARTER than that. I think you would agree that there are SOME things more important than continuing to metabolize oxygen. Might one of those things be "love"... whatever the hell it is?
Is this not so, Spitfire?
My invitation stands...

P.S. I'm gonna pull a "Pontius Pilate" on you.
You told Kardec, that he couldn't "see the truth" (or
words to that effect.)
What IS (the) Truth, Spitfire?

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Reply #48 - Oct 29th, 2005 at 11:25am
 
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@ marilyn, the heart is a pump not a love machine, it was classified as the center of love because of the importence of it's function. Yes i know were my heart is, i have had many dogs over the years, and yes i value there companionship, but is that love?, if you did'nt feed your dog for a few days, you would soon see "love" being replaced by pure animal aggression, btw, dogs dont wag there tails because there pleased to see you. They do it to get there aroma of there rear into the air for you to sniff. (yes it's true, i learned that on the first agility course i went on).


The heart is classified as the love center because of the heart chakra, one of our 7 main chakras. Do a search on it, you just might learn something.

As far as dogs wagging their tails, that's not the only way that dogs show us unconditional love. I just realized that trying to explain anything to you is a waste of my time.

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Reply #49 - Oct 30th, 2005 at 6:38am
 
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The heart is classified as the love center because of the heart chakra, one of our 7 main chakras. Do a search on it, you just might learn something.

As far as dogs wagging their tails, that's not the only way that dogs show us unconditional love. I just realized that trying to explain anything to you is a waste of my time.

Namaste`
Mairlyn Roll Eyes


chakra's, yes i know about them, but id never believe something so ridiculous, unless i had proof.

Maybe you should only explain things, when you know, what your explaining is correct, it would save yourself and me alot of time.

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About love.
Now, I don't claim to really know what it is either. It is one of those "slippery" concepts. (Perhaps it is about placing another's happiness and welfare above your own?)
Consider this for a moment. You're young...
Do you not dream of your ideal lover, even if you've never been in love before? If not, what kind of 18-year-old guy ARE you?
Have you not thought about what you would do if, say... you and her were cornered by a group of thugs?
Now remember, this is your DREAM GIRL, the one and only, She who you met by dumb luck and are CERTAIN you'll never find her like again (NOT some skank you picked up for a "quickie".) She is... She who makes your heart pound for reasons you don't understand... She who makes you feel like the king of the world when she's near... She who makes your work day go by quickly, as you anticipate the pleasures that await in her arms (and elsewhere..!)
(And YES, some lucky few of us DO find such a lover in this lifetime. You're young... could you be one of them? Quite possibly!)
Would you not order her BEHIND you, and be perfectly willing to kill and maim... or BE killed/maimed... to defend her? Would not your attitude LITERALLY be, "OVER MY DEAD BODY"?
Would you not rush into a burning building, to save her?
Imagine Saddam Hussein kidnapped the two of you, and said that ONE of you would be killed (I'll make it easy for you, it's by painless lethal injection.) Would you not say, "I, NOT her!"
OR...
Would you run as fast as your legs could carry you from the thugs, leaving your lover to her fate...
Would you stare at the burning building, and make some reptilian calculation of "better her than me..."
Would you grovel before  Saddam, and blubber: "kill HER, only PLEASE, PLEASE let me live?"
If you'd answer the above three questions with a "yes" then I truly PITY you, Spitfire... and I pity the woman who's fool enough to "settle" for you (if such a dumb bunny exists..!)
I'd go so far as say you had a personality disorder if you did - and I wouldn't bet much money on your prospects for future happiness either. I'd predict a miserable future of loneliness, looney pills and day treatment programs for you... that's a typical long-term outcome for personality disorder cases. Or maybe prison (depending on how you react when provoked.)
But I DON'T think you would answer "yes" to the above. I think you're SMARTER than that. I think you would agree that there are SOME things more important than continuing to metabolize oxygen. Might one of those things be "love"... whatever the hell it is?
Is this not so, Spitfire?
My invitation stands...

P.S. I'm gonna pull a "Pontius Pilate" on you.
You told Kardec, that he couldn't "see the truth" (or
words to that effect.)
What IS (the) Truth, Spitfire?

B-man


lo chumo
long time no argument

I see your point, but is'nt love a physical condition? If your perfect girl killed your mother, would'nt love turn to hate?

i can imagine things which would give me pleasure/peace, but without my 5 sense's i would'nt know they exist.

Which is why i dont think love is a super energy field, which spans this life and the next.

Love itself i find, can only be described as a conglomerate of emotions/feelings which are all created by the brain, based on past experiences of pleasure.

You see people who fall off bikes, or who have head injury, they dont give a second thought about "love" or any other emotion for that matter.




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Reply #50 - Oct 30th, 2005 at 11:40am
 
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chakra's, yes i know about them, but id never believe something so ridiculous, unless i had proof.

Maybe you should only explain things, when you know, what your explaining is correct, it would save yourself and me alot of time.


You can only prove it to yourself.

And it would save me a lot of time if you looked things up for yourself. A true seeker seeks for himself.

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Reply #51 - Oct 30th, 2005 at 12:21pm
 
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You can only prove it to yourself.

And it would save me a lot of time if you looked things up for yourself. A true seeker seeks for himself.

Namaste`
Mairlyn


If everyone had to prove things to themselve's, we would still be going around in bear skins. Human existance is based on co-operation, and the sharing on knowledge, the greatest people in the human race, discover and share new infomation, which benefits us all, not keep it to themselves and act smug.

I always research topics thoroughly, as one person said, amazing claims require's amazing evidence, anyone who excepts less then this, is not being impartial to what he/she is investigating.
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Reply #52 - Oct 30th, 2005 at 3:14pm
 
Justin 2710, I really liked your response to Spitfire because for the past week I have been drawn back to Monroe’s discussions with his probes concerning I-There and (M) in UJ (pgs. 185 thru 199) and want to go a bit further in connecting the theories about energy to Love feelings, loving attitudes, and beliefs based on love and how these things work to effect positive results in our lives.  I know they work but I’m trying to better understand the hows and whys (and NO I ain’t talking about being rich).  While I’m reading Monroe’s description of (M), I’m also trying to coordinate it with Jampolsky’s, Mini Course for Healing Relatioships and Bringing About Peace of Mind , based on ACIM and remembering the positive results I receive in counteracting the feeling of fear when I use the love exercise given by Bruce in The Afterlife Guidebook. I didn’t fully internalize the concept that it is the use of energy derived from our emotions that makes the love energy (UJ pg.176) work and prevents the fear energy from gaining a foothold, but I’m getting there.  So your response helped me to tie some of these fragments together to gain a bit more understanding of the mechanics and gave me the motivation to attempt to put it in writing.

What I’m coming up with so far is that because:  

1.I can see/feel the positive results of this Love energy in action: For example: feelings of peace within and without as I never expected to find as I interact in my physical/non physical environments and experience a reduction in my fears while doing so. I’ve also had the perks of feeling and giving PUL just for fun in addition to my gaining a sense of empowerment and a bit more gratitude for being here. I also experience more of a sense of adventure in my life especially in dealing with others and lots of other good stuff but Spitfire and Justin are right, this is very selfish indeed but then again, I doubt anyone can give love without loving themselves first.
 
2.And can use many ways to start the Love energy going: I can choose to take position/attitude/beliefs in thoughts and behaviors, which create more positive interactions.  For example I: Use ACIM or Jampolsky’s non-sectarian version of ACIM , and say to myself with the goal of internalizing these views, “The essence of my being is love as it is with all others humans, I can choose peace instead of this, Since love is eternal-fear of death is not relevant, I can be a love seeker rather than fault finder, I can always perceive others as either extending love or giving a call for help, Giving is receiving, My safety lies in my defenselessness, Today I will judge nothing that occurs…etc.” or use any other affirmations/ statements that help me to stay focused on a more positive track. I’m trying to understand the suggestion made to Monroe in UJ  of turning your (energy) receptors off by deliberately ignoring negative influences but the power of this is still new to me and it does help to use Bruce’s seeing it not there or trying his Law of Love and Fear exercise to allow for more loving experiences.  I the past, I’ve told myself to just let something go which I would formally stew over. Of course others might use a combo of these plus any other methods which aid in using love energy and redirecting negative energy. (Obviously us humans always have the option of maintaining or taking the opposite stance, that of perpetrating negativity as many do because either way the energy/thought thing would work.)

3.And this works because Love is an energy and we are all connected: For example: Justin’s concept that if Unified Field Theory was proven that everything has consciousness, that all Consciousnesses were alive…etc. and Monroe’s findings recorded in UL chapter 13, Fine Tuning regarding “(M)-broad field of energy…unrecognized by contemporary civilization…common to and operational within and out side time space present… (M): adjacent to thought>Love [(mine), fear, hate, etc.] is band of (M) adjacent to thought…thought affects and modulate (M) radiation. Learning to control (M) Field thought radiation, etc”.  In other words emotions/feelings are energy which effects all beings in physical or non-physical planes.  

Great theories to play around with in a general sort of way when discussing, Is Love Real(?) and the mechanics of how it might work in all types of situations where people connect.  

For those of you who don’t believe that love is real because you can’t see, taste, or feel it but that fear is because you can see, taste, and feel it, what is there to loose by experimenting with love as a real tool at your disposal as many use the tools of fear, or hate, or any other negative emotion which surrounds to protect you/them from sadness from loss, hurt from being rejected or abused and to generally ward off others from getting too close.  Really, what do you have to loose that you haven’t lost already?  Personally I’ve gained much by trying these different love suggestions/exercises because of being tired of hurting, feeling at the mercy of my emotions, being angry, and have instead enjoyed playing with them and/or using them at different times in the past 15 years.  I don’t wish to go back to that space where I didn’t have the experience of seeing that these types of love belief exercises really do work in changing what I attract into my life and for peace of mind.  Maybe someday all this Love glue stuff will be visible under a microscope, as Spitfire would like, but I doubt it because I think it’s greater than merely the physical.  Just thought I’d throw this out there in case it fills in the gaps for someone on a similar path.    

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Reply #53 - Oct 30th, 2005 at 4:19pm
 
Hi Jean

Nice post, liked it alot.

I used to like monroe to, but his last book "ultimate journey", kinda took away some of his credability for me. The guy on earth who was thousands of years old etc, just did'nt seem very plausable, unlike the rest of his work.

i still think love cant be described as 1 emotion/feeling, and thats it's more of a combination of positive vibes.

i have come to the conclusion, that 1 persons idea of love, is'nt usually anothers idea, due to the complex make up of emotions/feelings which are inherant in it's nature.

also, i still think love is a highly oriented towards selfishness alot of the time, and usually the kind of love which is truely pure and unconditional, is the love which you only knows there, when you lose the thing you project the combination of the emotions towards.

From a scientific stand point, "love" could possbily extend beyond the physical, if it was a combination of positive feelings, for we know that feelings/emotions can have a huge impact of the the brain and the signals it emits.

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Reply #54 - Oct 30th, 2005 at 4:28pm
 
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If everyone had to prove things to themselve's, we would still be going around in bear skins. Human existance is based on co-operation, and the sharing on knowledge, the greatest people in the human race, discover and share new infomation, which benefits us all, not keep it to themselves and act smug.


Since I do like to prove things for myself, which I did when I read Bruce's books and attended TMI and started exploring the afterlife MYSELF, my bear skin is getting thread-bare and I'm ready to graduate to a buffalo robe.  Grin

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Reply #55 - Oct 30th, 2005 at 4:54pm
 
Hi Spitfire,

I have no argument about anything your saying about love, I pretty much agree, but I still like the UJ better than his other 2 books.

Thanks for your responce, talk later, Jean
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Spitfire, you may find this website interesting...
Reply #56 - Nov 1st, 2005 at 5:39am
 
And yes, keep a grain of salt handy. BUT...
It may give you some food for thought.
Here it is:

www.cfpf.org.uk/

Good questions, BTW. Remember a couple things,
though...
We are all "locked inside our skulls", if you please. We are all essentially ALONE, reliant on subjective impressions processed via our brains. Just HOW reliable are those 5 senses of yours when it comes to ultimate objective reality (if it even exists..!) And do our brains function as a "storage tank" for memories... or are they a "receiver" of some kind? Current science gives us no answer, and EITHER ONE could easily account for the mental deterioration of say, Alzheimers OR loss of function due to brain damage.
Some of the latest developments in physics seem to indicate that physical reality is a "hologram" projected from an "intrinsic reality"...
What the hell is DOING this "projecting", might I ask???
Also... you seem to place great faith in current scientific "wisdom" regarding the nature of the universe. Remember... we are a PRIMITIVE civilization, Spitfire. What the hell do we really KNOW about ultimate reality? Most popularly "canonized" cosmological thinking is based on 17th-century Newtonian ideas... (And furthermore, ask yourself why we are (practically) no closer to a cure for cancer than we were at the end of World War 2, when we first made cancer a "big science" priority... or why we still rely on BURNING THINGS to produce energy - just like we did a couple millennia ago? And where's those flying cars and fusion reactors we were supposed to have by now?)
I'll talk to you some more, after I sleep off all the beer I drank last tonight.
Till then,

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Reply #57 - Nov 1st, 2005 at 11:05am
 
 
Along the lines of B-Mans post, a great book is The Field by Lynne Taggart.  This book shows that we are so much more than physical matter, and its all pretty much all from a physics and experimental perspective.
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Reply #58 - Nov 1st, 2005 at 8:17pm
 
The Field is heavy reading but it ties our consciousness and the universe together in terms from the smallest level, to larger ones.  It is worth a read - best book I have read recently


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