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blink Ex Member	Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior Reply #30 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 1:29pm Love is all around you today, dear Spitfire. I know you feel it. Your arms are waving around but we have all been holding you in our arms the whole time. love, blink
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Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior
Reply #31 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 1:44pm

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Love is all around you today, dear Spitfire. I know you feel it. Your arms are waving around but we have all been holding you in our arms the whole time.

love, blink

I was finding it hard to breath ^+.... i thought it was because other people felt threatend because i think there beliefs are not real.

I'll let you know if i find out what love is blinko, until then stay tuned

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Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior
Reply #32 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 2:57pm

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When i see people weeping at a funeral, i feel they are stealing attention, becuase they know someone will give em a good hug. I think there just being selfish as is everyone else at the funeral.

Where is your heart?

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The animal kingdom shows no love, we are an animal so ar'nt we the same?.

I guess you've never had a dog. Dogs are here to show us how to love unconditionally. Get a dog and you will see LOVE in it's purest form.

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Reply #33 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 4:46pm

Dude, Spitspark, you remind me of this one kid I went to school with last year. He was one crazy guy.

So, you'd talk to this guy about something, anything at all, and he'd try to prove that you were wrong, and that the thing you were talking about didn't really exist. I remember that he and I had a lengthy conversation once about how gravity, according to him, doesn't really exist. Later, the conversation evolved into how I didn't really exist, and that he was the only thing that existed, and finally into how maybe nothing at all exists.

Honestly, I don't see how you can possibly believe that the emotion of love doesn't exist when it makes people do absolutely stupid and irrational things that would be completely against any normal animal's "survival instinct."

In short: That guy was just trying to get me to argue with him and stir up trouble. Where I come from, we call those kinds of people "trolls."

Make the connection.

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Reply #34 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 6:13pm

I make you angry, do I Spitfire? Well....there is hope at least....you can at least feel ONE emotion.
Your remark to me about how I was beaten by my ex husband and now I am so gulible that I would believe anything is the most insensitive remark that I have ever heard.
Just what kind of person are you REALLY?? Why are you even here on this board?
I may have been a beaten wife at one time....but I am not gulible...not by any means. And I will tell you right now, for whatever it is worth to you...that I learned alot from those years.....those experiences in my life have given me the opportunity to learn humility....self respect, diginity....to forgive, to tolerate and understand even the worst behaviours in people. Those years taught me to find my true self....to be able to find and feel the real meaning in life...I was once at that bottom of the cesspool....and the rose back up to the top by means of 'love'........the love of loving myself, others and by the love of being able to feel all the beauty in things around me.
You my dear boy....have so much yet to learn....and not in just the afterlife, but in the basic's of life itself. I would suggest that a good starting point for you would be in learning to love yourself...then maybe you can graduate sometime soon and begin to love others.
When I wake up every morning, I am happy....I might hear the rain falling....it is music to my ears.....because I can 'hear'.
It may be sunny.....I can see the vibrant rays of the sun....I am happy....because I can 'see'.
I slowly get out of bed.....I have degenerative disc disease in my spine......it causes me great pain many mornings to take even one step....but I am happy because I can still walk......
At the end of the day when I go back to bed....I am happy because I have given my granddaughter a huge hug....and that I told her a million times that day how much I love her......she is my sunshine...and every day that I am alive, she will know that.
I can go to sleep at night with peace and contentment in my heart....because my day was filled with being ALIVE..... and having had yet another day to experience all the beautiful things to see and feel.
When you see a dog chasing after the butterflies......and you can smile at that and feel his joy in what he is doing.....that is 'love'.
When you can fall asleep listening to the wind twirling thru the trees.....that is 'love'.
When you can hear the song in your heart....that is 'love'.
You Spitfire.....are not going to find 'love' in a can marked: Instant Love. You have much to learn.
Am I gullible?? No way!!! I am happy.

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blink Ex Member	Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior Reply #35 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 7:05pm Wow, Mystic, that is the most beautiful thing I've heard all day. What a great gal you are. love, blink
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Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior
Reply #36 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 7:08pm

Spitfire, you said:
I was finding it hard to breath ^+.... i thought it was because other people felt threatend because i think there beliefs are not real.

No, Spitfire, you were finding it hard to breath because you needed to stop and take a breath.

Just stop and listen a while. The world holds so much more for you than you think it does.

love, blink

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Reply #37 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 8:45pm

Hi Spitfire,

I don't think any of us could really explain in words, or logic what love is... It seems to be something that you need to try an feel..

Maybe you could try looking at it in a physics sense? Say Unified Field Theory was proven tomorrow, and this theory said that everything has consciousness, and that all Consciousnesses were alive and connected one to another, and each consciousness was in a sense, the center.

What affects one consciousness, affects all on some energy level... The more you begin to tune your human consciousness into this greater, more expanded and collective Consciousness where all energies are One, the more "love" you start to feel... You start to become more aware of these other consciousnesses... Now, if everything is really a part of you, then would it make much sense to try and harm yourself? Wouldn't that make you unhappy in some way, or on some level?

Love is actually really selfish in a way And people that really are truly Loving feel/know that everything is a part of them, and they do not want to hurt themselves, so they make it a habit of being kind to everyother part of themselves... Much like most people wouldn't smash their little pinky with a hammer (yes i know some might)..

This very hypothetical situation, is why psychism does seem to have validity, and people that seem to live from an awareness that all things are One, tend to be more pyschic--though you don't have to be loving to be psychic, it just makes it easier.

The challenge for people like you, since you seem to function so much from the left brain, is to temporarily suspend your judgment, and just try actually living this principle--which is actually very scientific because its all based on energy and how it works--for awhile...

Throw in a little meditation, and during this remember those times where you felt really happy and loved by someone, and bring up this feeling...and by pretending, or imagining, give this out to the rest of the Universe that you are temporarily pretending is very much a part of you, and you a part of everything else...

And in your daily life, if you start to become negative, intolerant, spiteful, or angry at another...even if it is justified, stop and try to remember that feeling..and extend that to the person who is "making" you feel this.

Its a challenge, and i think if you sincerely try this with your strong will power, you may be surprised in finding yourself a little happier, a little less tense, and more joyful each day.

The real question to you...is what do you have to lose? Maybe just a little unhappiness--that wouldn't be much of a price would it?

Peace

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mystic_dreamer Ex Member	Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior Reply #38 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 9:35pm Hey Blink.........and thank you!! You are a very special person in my eyes too, did ya know that kiddo??!
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Reply #39 - Oct 28^th, 2005 at 2:16am

Cheers justin, at least you try to explain.

I would agree that things could be connected on a different level.

Even though i work with the left side of my brain, i am open to things, aslong as people explain how they work, and not go into -Im superior mode- and start waffling about it not "being my time" or "im not ready yet", because they cannot explain what they believe rationally.

Theres to many fake "psychics" for me to believe anything most of them say, usually there are money grabbers, or people who seek fame/want to be special because they think they have no gifts in this plain.

@ mystic dreamer, You were the one, who said i should be weeded out?, and gotten rid of.
So dont play the innocent with me, i was merely extending my feelings back towards your comments.

@ marilyn, the heart is a pump not a love machine, it was classified as the center of love because of the importence of it's function. Yes i know were my heart is, i have had many dogs over the years, and yes i value there companionship, but is that love?, if you did'nt feed your dog for a few days, you would soon see "love" being replaced by pure animal aggression, btw, dogs dont wag there tails because there pleased to see you. They do it to get there aroma of there rear into the air for you to sniff. (yes it's true, i learned that on the first agility course i went on).

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Kardec Senior Member Offline I miss something I don't know what it is. Posts: 276 Brasil - Porto Alegre Gender:	Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior Reply #40 - Oct 28^th, 2005 at 4:35am "...(yes it's true, i learned that on the first agility course i went on)..." Some things you learn others you don't. Sorry boy.
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Reply #41 - Oct 28^th, 2005 at 5:21am

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"...(yes it's true, i learned that on the first agility course i went on)..."

Some things you learn others you don't. Sorry boy.

It's ok grandpa, i would'nt wanna learn what you know, because your weak, your beliefs are based on nothing but fairy tales. But if you can live in ignorance, thats your choice, you wanna keep insulting me, keep on, i'll give the same as i recieve.

@Damla

I'll put my argument as simply as i can.

LOVE - everyone on this board says love is what everyone needs/strives for, show love, give love and be loved. Every solution/argument/topic involves LOVE as the basic foundation.

Yet i ask what love is?, and not 1 person can give me a straight answer, they give me cliche after cliche, "Love is in the heart", a tingly feeling, "that special moment" etc, etc.

If i said, waters not wet. and used the fact it's not wet in all my arguments, then clearly i would be wrong, yet everyones been so drugged up on love juice so much, they are no better then the crusaders from 800 years ago, anything that dont fit in there box, are considered heathens.

All i ask, is people make logical arguments, get rid of there superior smugness, and verify there beliefs.

If/when they cant do that, they just attack what i say/ dismiss it, and tell me "your not ready"..."your time will come". Completely avoiding the logical answers i provide them with.

I ask for well thought out arguments like justins, not the slogans Most of em spit at me. It's not to much to ask, when i am more then willing to listen to there reasoning if/when it is reasonable.

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Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior
Reply #42 - Oct 28^th, 2005 at 5:31am

Now I got it.

As you can't reach our knowledge of love you need technical explanations in order to at least imagine what we've already got... Oh boy! Sorry I was not realizing that you were lost this way.

Ok I'll confess we’re all liars we’ve never felt love to be honest we are all mass killers and this site is our joining point. Our main mission is to make people believe that love is real in order to transform then into manageable puppets. Once achieved such a goal we will have the whole planet under our control and I was chose the one who will rule the world. But now that you've got us We’re lost Now that you've realized our evil plans we will have to change the plan.

God dam! You got us.

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Kardec Senior Member Offline I miss something I don't know what it is. Posts: 276 Brasil - Porto Alegre Gender:	Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior Reply #43 - Oct 28^th, 2005 at 6:09am Spitfire, Sorry for taunting you. I was just a little tired with some statements at this site. I will let you go ahead with your pursuit and will no longer rankle you.
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Reply #44 - Oct 28^th, 2005 at 6:58am

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It's ok grandpa, i would'nt wanna learn what you know, because your weak, your beliefs are based on nothing but fairy tales. But if you can live in ignorance, thats your choice, you wanna keep insulting me, keep on, i'll give the same as i recieve.

Got Emo?

Listen, guy. A lot of people on this board don't like to offend anybody else, which is wonderful and I praise them for it, but I'm as blunt as a wooden club; you're not going to get that from me.

These people are genuinely attempting to help you find what love is, if you're actually even interested, and you keep treating them with disrespect. That's both degrading them and yourself, you know that? It's not healthy in any possible way.

If you truly believe denying human nature, insulting, jeering, and hurting others and yourself makes you strong, and you truly believe that everyone here is weak because we actually give a damn about the world we live in, why don't you just scamper off and do whatever macho thing it is that you do?

Love is a heightened connection to someone that is, I believe on a physical level, marked by hormone levels in the brain. Love on a simply instinctual basis is merely the need to protect one's mate to ensure offspring.

The fact that we can't explain love on an emotional basis doesn't say a thing about its existence. You can't see the wind, but you feel its effects.

Stop insulting our intelligence and your own.

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