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Spitfire

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Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior
Reply #15 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 11:54am

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Spitfire how can I explain LOVE to you?

Let's try

What is love and what is not?

Is love:

You know if you love a grill when you’d rather see she (her?) in other guy’s arms than smashed by a truck

Is not love:

You know you don't love a grill if you'd rather see she (her?) smashed by a truck than in other guy's arms.

Did it helped a little?

English is not that easy to me.

although i would'nt like it either way, i would pick the lesser of the 2 evils.

I would do this because my brain calculated which would be worse off for myself.

i would have to put up with her family crying about her death etc, while if she was with another guy, i would look like the victim.

I would'nt class it as love, but cold calculation.

anymore scenario's?,

dont worry about your english, it's very good.

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Reply #16 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 11:55am

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You dont even know kardec, for all you know he could be a mass murderer, but "he's a peaceful, kind man, i can feel love ozzing from ever pour, (does'nt matter that you cant explain what love is though).

Ha ha ha ha Grin

now I realized why I like you. I was a bit down but you simple gave me some gooood laughs just now. Grin

Thank you....

I guess you’re a good boy . Maybe a little nervous but still a good boy. Wink

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Kardec Senior Member Offline I miss something I don't know what it is. Posts: 276 Brasil - Porto Alegre Gender:	Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior Reply #17 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 12:02pm Quote: I would'nt class it as love, but cold calculation. anymore scenario's?, dont worry about your english, it's very good. You don't really belive that. You only feel alone and is trying to survive.
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Spitfire

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Reply #18 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 12:09pm

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You don't really belive that. You only feel alone and is trying to survive.

Everyone calculates what someone else's death will cost them. When you lose a parent, you think to yourself, i cannot experience the things i used to, because there no longer here, and you feel sad and regret for things you should have said/done.

You dont think, "i worry about whats happened to there soul etc".

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Reply #19 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 12:14pm

Can i just say something....nothing is going to come off this. Spitfire doesn't know what love is and to be honest won't ever (thats of course if he really doesn't) because hes not going to let himself. The easiest question spitfire....Is there not anyone, not anyone at all you truly love, whether it be family, a pet or a girl? You never had something more than...wow shes hot!?

Also spitfire I was really amazed by your reply to Kardecs question about love.... basically what I got from you post is you wouldn't mind her being smashed to death by a truck...as long as the outcome wasn't as bad as another scenario for YOU....you right that is loveless cold calculation, forgetting love out of the whole question though.... just basic morales and kindness.....you didnt even think man I don't want this girl to die??? Please tell me I am mistaken, please.

At the end of the day love is undescribeable, no amounts of words can express or even attempt to descirbe it. if you seriously don't have any idea of what love is then there is somthing wrong. And love isn't just about a girl, love is love of life, people, friends, family, pets, food, music, books, sports, drink, a place....but you cant tell someone what love is....so why bother entertain??

Ryan

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blink Ex Member	Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior Reply #20 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 12:14pm Spitfire, You said: Everyone calculates what someone else's death will cost them. Did you ever stop to think what your beliefs are costing you? in peace, blink
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Reply #21 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 12:16pm

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Everyone calculates what someone else's death will cost them. When you lose a parent, you think to yourself, i cannot experience the things i used to, because there no longer here, and you feel sad and regret for things you should have said/done.
You dont think, "i worry about whats happened to there soul etc".

You know Spitfire… I used to think that you were just kidding but I’m starting to get worried about you and I guess you haven’t ever really loved anybody.

It makes me feel really surprised and I really don’t know what to say. It’s sad but you are young so I hope it all will get fixed as long as you find somebody to love. If not well…..

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Spitfire

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Reply #22 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 12:28pm

You see, no one can explain what Love is, so i cant say if i can understand it.

Dont get me wrong, i feel admiration/respect, and i feel attached to people. Yet i dont get this magical wonder drug everyone base's there lives upon.

i could classify love as "an attachment to an object/person, who gives me pleasure" or that im proud of. But that would be the limit.

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Reply #23 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 12:33pm

I'm finishing with this but before i'd like to explan you spitfire that to reconize when we are in love is easy The loved person happyness some times is more important to you that your own.

But you can't understand it now. So give your self a time and let it go. When the time comes you willl understand BUT NOT NOW.

I'm done.

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Spitfire

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Reply #24 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 12:33pm

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Spitfire,

You said: Everyone calculates what someone else's death will cost them.

Did you ever stop to think what your beliefs are costing you?

in peace, blink

There natural occurance's not beliefs blinko.

When i see people weeping at a funeral, i feel they are stealing attention, becuase they know someone will give em a good hug. I think there just being selfish as is everyone else at the funeral.

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Spitfire

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Reply #25 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 12:39pm

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I'm finishing with this but before i'd like to explan you spitfire that to reconize when we are in love is easy The loved person person hapyness some times is more important to you that your own.

But you can't understand it now. So give your self a time and let it go. When the time comes you willl understand BUT NOT NOW.

I'm done.

But how did you get to put there happyness above your own?, because they must give you some form of pleasure to get there in the first place, which leads us back to value.

It all leads back to what others do for ourselves. Memory's and experiences which you hope to recreate by standing by them when they need you, so they will do the same when you need them.

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Kardec Senior Member Offline I miss something I don't know what it is. Posts: 276 Brasil - Porto Alegre Gender:	Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior Reply #26 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 12:45pm When you were a father and were locked at an office bored with all those papers but in the other hand you know that your son is at the swimming pool kidding happily you'll understand that your idea about love is a misunderstood. (but as I’ve said it’s no time to you yet)
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Spitfire

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Reply #27 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 1:01pm

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When you were a father and were locked at an office bored with all those papers but in the other hand you know that your son is at the swimming pool kidding happily you'll understand that your idea about love is a misunderstood.
(but as I’ve said it’s no time to you yet)

The pleasure your son gives you, may inspire you to work long hours to support him. But is this love?

The animal kingdom shows no love, we are an animal so ar'nt we the same?.

Perhaps love is not 1 emotion, but a collection which leads to us being happy?

Happyness is probley a better description for how the human universe ticks over. The way we achieve it, still remains in question ^+.

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Kardec Senior Member Offline I miss something I don't know what it is. Posts: 276 Brasil - Porto Alegre Gender:	Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior Reply #28 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 1:03pm boy...boy
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Spitfire Ex Member	Re: BSC : Neutralizing first bad behavior Reply #29 - Oct 27^th, 2005 at 1:13pm Quote: boy...boy Love still does'nt exist. Let me know when you find out what it is.
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