Luke, every obe, every lucid dream every imagination trip method is so different from the one that went before that it is hard to set up guidelines for others to follow. mainly everything I learned was from Monroe and Moen gave me so many clues that I could notice I was able to resonate with what he teachs in a way I could not accomplish with other obe books. I think the imagination method is a new way of the future and the obe is just a beginning method.
I don't wish to lead others on that I am out there as an orb all the time kicking up my heels. that only happened once and there was a spiritual lesson attached to it before I got "to play." so I can assume I had a guide with me, and that we all have these guides with us sort of just observing us, but not to interfere with our learning.
the method I used during this orb situation was simply to relax every muscle consciously in my body for a period not to exceed 20 minutes of effort. pretty soon I found more muscles I could count, even eyebrow muscles...lol...apparently when you are completely releasing energy from the muscles, this energy you release can enter another astral vehicle if the intention is to obe...make sense? if a muscle is tight, must be some energy to relax there...just when I was going to give up, I popped out of the forehead and nearly got too excited to blow the whole thing when I heard guidance say "stay cool and collected".
I know I had a guide as my intentions were being monitored all the while..I was going to calif. to play a surprise joke on my brother...a guide put thoughts in my head, that what I was doing was not out of love for him, but too mischievious, so I stayed on the beach and conceded I was a little devil!

that was the spiritual lesson, and the reward for changing my mind was to be able to stay and play for awhile..I think our spirits out there are so playful and free, that is what I learned also, that I should make sure to do no harm when I'm out. he would have thought I was dead, and that was harmful to worry him.
so that now I think relaxation techniques and various methods are less important than the intention for going obe, that if you have right intention that is not a harmful one, but a more loving one, than your success is nearly always assured sooner or later. love, alysia