I believe you, I know it is for real.  I have no reason not to trust you. 

All I'm saying is you always lose your temper so darn fast.  Stay on topic of what you are seeking and you will get what you are looking for.  You aren't looking for a war right? 

You started this thread to get help, so wait for the help.  Your cousin might not even need retrieving. 

He might already be getting all the help he needs from all sorts of helpers over there. 

I do believe that someone can go check on him and maybe pick up some thoughts to relay to you, but still you will need to be patient. 

Are you using this as an opportunity for proof of the existence of the Afterlife?  That is good.  Opportunities arise all the time for us to take advantage of to learn from.  I don't have a problem with that. 

I would just appreciate your patience.  If someone bugs you then just ignore them, don't get so angry and hateful.

Thanks Mairlyn, well said. 

B-man, try to use all that energy you have (whether it's anger, frustration, or whatever) and turn it into love for your cousin.  It's obvious you are struggling emotionally right now. 

So use that energy to contact him yourself.  He will receive your thoughts, emotion, and energy.  It will be good for you.  You will see the good that comes from it. 

now it's better. I could feel some PUL here

just a word that Mair is right, the deceased first need a week or so (I believe in most cases) to make their adjustments...then they start making their rounds to family members to tell them they are still alive (always exceptions to the rule can be) this is what happened in my family where I have witnessed  5 transitions, that in all cases those members wished to talk with the living, they do wish to break through and try, to the living, but strong emotions act as a cloud barriar for their efforts. they advance by love that is sent to them, they sometimes try to make it right again through talking to their family members if they can possibly get through the emotions. is important then to picture them well and in comfortable place by thinking of what they gave to you in their lives and being grateful for that, they recieve this energy to benefit their afterlife circumstances.

My feeling is that there are spirit guides already looking out for your cousin. They know what's best for him. If they need to enlist somebody's help, they'll do so. I don't believe that it's a matter of somebody from the physical trying to take control of things. The best thing you can do is send him some supportive love energy.

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If you have a problem with what i said, please tell me, if not leave me out of your conversation.

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I dont know why that made me laugh, but it did. and i do appreciate that, But you dont wrap a child in cotton wool, you force them to face reality, and hiding from it, will make things worse in the long run.