I'm sorry, is this a serious post? I will treat it as serious.

your points are:
1. spirits do not have naughty parts or their ethereal equivalents
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answer from Aunt Alysia:
last time I checked I didn't find any naughty parts on the human body.
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2. sex is a physical act only for the physical plane
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on the immediate astral level or even on focus 27 bodies appear and feel quite solid even as they are here.
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3. (variant to 1) there is no male or female in the afterlife
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there is male and female in the afterlife. only on the highest level beings who have no need to express either male or female exclusively and they have within them perfect balance. there is a bst level where everyone has naughty parts however.
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4. there is no such thing as spiritual procreation
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true, but we don't know this for sure, I have heard of the possibility, but it has nothing to do with a sexual act as we know it.
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5. nothing would get done in the afterlife if we could have sex with anyone we desired (you name it - Pam Anderson, Tom Cruise, whatever)
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you mean YOU wouldn't get anything done. this is another bst idea. bst=belief system territory. please do some reading of the books suggested at the top of the page. you'll be glad you did.

edit after pondering: I think I know where you're coming from now. I think you are thinking that genitals are useless as they are what you consider physical items used for procreation on this side, but not on the other side. well, basically you are missing the point in that we have freedom to gravitate to any BST to continue experiencing sexuality if that is our choice within afterlife: I cite the example of Monroe's sex pile where the participants are forever desiring the sensation of the orgasm, yet addicted to this, they never achieve their fullfillment of this. this is their chosen place to be according to their free will. retreiving such is difficult according to Monroe's attempts. better to not be addicted to those pleasures. this is only one BST level. there are gradations of it where people live as they do here, you will have your married couples and your single people forming whatever relationships they did on the physical level according to their belief system of what suits them. is this not freedom? I think so. so the carryover of genitals is like a habit of our comfort. we are used to having a body and so we retain our body as well as the genitals stay where they are as long as we perceive they are useful to our purposes. we can also morph our bodies over there. we can look like any face we've ever admired if we so please, or any age, usually around 20's or 30's for most of us. although procreation is not accomplished there, expression of sexuality is if desired. on the higher levels merging is more to the norm as a way of expressing PUL. merging is also much more profound than the sexual act. you might ponder this some more and I'm sure u will experience it, merging is also experienced here, on the physical level. it is worth your while to consider it. in addition, insofar as procreation in the afterlife, I have read about a level where "new" souls are born..tiny little lights of I AM consciousness with no  experience at all within our physical area. I have not explored the area, but it resonates with me personally, that life is always reproducing itself endlessly, just as it does here within nature, and within humans. this world reflects the real world where we came from. love, alysia
all you grandfathers and grandmothers, you lucky dogs, I can't wait to hold new life in my arms and to be granny at last.

its kind of a joke Roger. I meant to the poster, if he thinks it's naughty parts then thats his BST place he goes to, where everyone thinks the same way.

cheers..