I don't have any suggestions, just wanted to welcome you back Raphael.  Good to see you again.

Love, Mairlyn 

Raphael, I think the best book for you is David Fontana's "Is There an Afterlife?  A Comprehensive Overview of the Evidence."  He carefully considers both sides of each relevant issue and documents that quality of the witnesses.  Here are the chapter headings:

1. Survival of Death: Questions and Beliefs
2. Evidence from Modern Parapsychology
3. Evidence from Apparitions
4. Hauntings
5. Mediumship: History and Background
6. Mental Mediumship
7. Three Outstanding Mental Mediums
8. Drop-in Communicators and the Cross-
    Correspondences
9. Proxy Cases
10. Are Statements by Mediums too General and
     Too Trivial?
11. Physical Mediumship: Independent Voice
     Phenomena
12. Physical Mediumship: Materializations and
     Other Phenomena
13. Physical Mediumship: More Recent Examples
     and the Question of Fraud
14. Instrumental Communication
15. Near-Death Experiences
16. Out-of-the-Body Experiences
17. Reincarnation
18. The Nature of an Afterlife

Don