hi Bazza. congratulations, you are sane

and yes the obe's are real. I took the same route you took. I bought Monroe's books 20 years ago. I had always been interested in going obe but never got past the vibrational state although I would often try to force it, I'd just fall asleep after the sensations, btw, for me anyway, just to feel those head vibrations whirling like that may have been an end in itself? it was ecstasy. I don't have them anymore. I'm just "there." phasing I guess. it's all good. so at the time of acquiring Monroe's books, I had been involved in gaining an obe, but didn't think just reading about it would help any. it did. yet it happened spontaneously after reading and becoming curious, intensely so, about a hitchhiker on Monroe while he was obe. I wondered if someday if I were out there traveling as Bob did, that I too, would pick up a hitchhiker? for I thought Bob had done a loving service to allow the small curl to ride with him. as I went into this space, just wondering about obes and about Bob, I was awoken in the night and a guide told me to come with her. that night I did my first retrieval out of body and brought the memory home with me. for years, I didn't know what I had done until I came here and everyone agreed it was a retrieval. and the rest of the story is I started exploring with retrievals and gathering some experiences of a self defining nature out there.
Bruce will tell u in his books that the hardest part of exploration is believing that u are actually doing it. this is true. How can we be so lucky to actually come to "know?" yet there is no such thing as luck. if you begin to trust yourself, that what u are getting is useful to yourself, to begin to know who and what you are aside from what logic dictates you are, then you begin to get more and more truths about yourself. it is my belief that when we explore, either obes, imagination or phasing or dreams we are exploring our own selves, and in this we are all connected as one. yet the minute you say "I am crazy" it shuts down the areas u want to sail into.
I can confirm the feeling of riding a motorbike swiftly, as my awareness, light body if u will, came out of my forehead chakra, making a popping sound and sped away, lol, to Calif. I was consciously trying to project to my brother, but changed my mind once I landed on the beach area; he wasn't ready to receive me. I did however, show up in my sisters house once and she told me about it. I had been trying, so I felt good I showed up. some obes you are fully aware, some not fully, but still know you are out. Enjoy yourself! I think that's what the ability is there for!

Kardek, I think I can help you; ask yourself where you would like to explore and then start imagining what it would feel like, what you might discover, why you would like to explore there, etc. think about it a long time..then watch out! you may sometime open your eyes to find yourself in non-familiar surroundings and then it has begun.....
love, alysia