There will come a time (NOW actually), when everyone, certainly including all of us here, can see with utmost clarity that indeed, everyone here is in truth really relating to himself/herself.
That is to say, Berserk's horror and abomination (for what he understands as 'New Age kookery'), Kathy (and Ephrium)'s words of insight & loving advice from their perspective, Alysia's sincerity and willingness to sharing of her personal wisdom, etc. In all of these, the being(s) expressing their energies, thoughts and sentiments via their communication, are doing so as a natural extension of themselves, their nature, their intentions.
Thus, as the guides & helpers quietly observe all happenings, they of course understand that every word, thought and intention, though seemingly directed outward at another, or seemingly invested for a desired outcome for another, is in truth, really all (and always) a reflection of themselves (the 'horror', the intent for assistantiality or advice, and the sincerity of sharing, all are in truth kaleidoscopic reflections of the light from & within these beings, as it passes through the lenses of free will & expression).
But it is a reflection that is part of a gentle and powerful sharing, a connecting between and across consciousnesses, who have given their intention to do so. The listener, in recognizing, relating and connecting with the ideas or concepts as conveyed by the words, are really connecting with these concepts within *themselves*, as they have chosen to understand these, or create it in their awareness.
This is important for the individual to recognize, for lucidity of this process (Clarification) returns (from illusion) empowerement and self-responsibility back to the soul, that each and every person, is certainly capable and responsible, for accepting or receiving what is offered or communicated, in a lucid way that is indeed truthful and helpful to the person him/herself, ie. in alignment, integration and co-creation with the person's own nature, free will, and evolution; and not one that is based on a so-called 'objective', limiting, separative, and fragmented view of reality (ie. that ideas from some other person outside the individual, can actually be *truly* attacking him/her in some way; to paraphrase, the false notion that one's worth, correctness or lovability, can be somehow dependent on, altered or reduced by the ideas, opinions, or perspectives of other beings), which is of course inherently meaningless, illusionary and invalid (as with all emotional suffering & upset, which stems from such).
No one else is ever responsible for (or can give to you without your agreement) your pain of suffering, your hurt of dissapointment, your tears of anger, your sorrowful heart, your temptation to hurt others out of hurt, your wasting or missing the chance to express your care & love for another being who looks to you with his/her tearful eyes; that's your job, your responsibility, your choice.
No one else is ever responsible for (or can choose for you to experience) your understanding & acceptance, your peace of heart, your courage to honour your dreams and your loved ones, your appreciation for the beauty of others and all beings, your shout of joy for sharing with all the universe, your willingness and intention to share your warmth, your company, your wisdom, your light, your love and indeed your very being, with another, with others around you, with all whom you contact, with all beings of the Cosmos.
No one outside of you, is responsible for all of this. Only one being can choose any, or all of this. And that being is You.
And your responsibility in *claiming* your free will, is the most important thing in your universe. GOD Him/HerSelf, is relying on each and every being, on You, for the very nature and outcome of His/Her experience. *You* can choose if God is happy or sad, hurt or accepted, unloved or loved. And at every moment, you are indeed choosing.
For who are You, but verily the very aspect of God that has chosen to experience reality, free will and love, as You.

Remember, you are always the master of your own soul, the creator of your own nature, and the captain of your own destiny. This is always true, whether you are aware of it or not. If it does not matter to you, then that is your choice. And if it matters to you, then (by God) make it matter! For you have all your loved ones (who love you!), all of the Cosmos (so much!), and all of Eternity (so precious!), to love! Make it matter!