Spooky said: Concerning the wish to quit and go back: If one was in eternity, why not staying here a little while longer? But, if one is really SHURE it is not necessary to learn here anything more, it's everyone's own choice...
_____
my theory is that last part about choice..but that one moves towards the understanding that you have choice; until you realize you have choice, you do not have choice.
my other theory is that if one finds one self in eternity, the desire, with further more widened perspective, the desire is to return. the grass is always greener on the other side kind of thinking. speaking generally of course.
my 3rd theory...lol...(didn't know I had so many) is that you cannot be certain that you have nothing more to gain, nothing more to experience here, unless you have others with whom you interact and for what ever reason, give information and PUL (pun, take note.lol) you back into a reason to stay.
example: family wants you to be with them.
is reason I say..be nuetral, that is to be prepared for whatever happens, to stay or to leave. unless, surprise deaths are something you have planned out by higher self.
I bring this up after meeting a spirit..who was so not serious about his life that he told me he planned his own accident and enjoyed every minute of dying. who am I to judge? but he had a lot of explaining to do to his bereaved family..but don't have to explain anything to me. I passed on what he said but wasn't worth much to them. their hurt was still there. most often families carry some guilt they did something wrong by not seeing it coming. so then the person on the other side spends a lot of time trying to persuade them it wasn't their fault. I say, instead of dying, then coming back to make things right, make things right before dying by open communication. it's for certain we carry responsibility for what our relationshps look like and if we hurt someone, even unintentionally, we need to make it right, is easier to make it right here, than there. heres a little more RA:
______
There was very little development of faith or will (some ancient beginning of man)
The facility of faith or will needs to be understood, nourished and developed in order to have an entity which seeks past the boundary of 3rd density. Those entities which do not do their homework be they ever so amiable or likeable, shall not cross into the 4rth.
______
this above sort of puts us all back in the saddle to ride our own horse across the praire....