Dear all,

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What I would like to add to part 5, as I continue to reflect on the matter, is a supplementary opinion I have. My job is a secretary, so I am not a psychiatrist or any specialist in the field. I studied languages, nothing related to psychology.

Every physical action is a sum of a number of thoughts. The most relevant thought will be the one triggering the action, the one pushing you to act or to do nothing. Because doing nothing is also an action, as it is the result of a thought (conscious or unconscious).

This means that any action can have several thoughts linked to it, some of them being principal thoughts, other being underlying.

When we act physically as I said: one thought will be stronger than the other and will push the action (or non-action) in one way or another.

Other thoughts, linking fear or other feelings, can make your action stronger or weaker. In daily life we call this MOTIVATION or DEDICATION and you certainly all now more motivated people than others.

Now, in the non-physical world, the thought linked to fear for your physical-self is liberated, because you know that you will not get sick, that hurt can only be emotional, not physical and that one cannot threaten you with material things such as : If you do not work well, you will get less salary. OR If I do not like you, I will not help you build your house OR anything else. (I will come back on this in my chapter on money-matters)
If you see a bomb falling in the non-physical world, even though it might look real, you are still given the possibility to hope, because you know that your faith only depends on your state of mind, on the work you did on yourself and nothing else.

This kind of LAW does not apply to the physical world. Your actions or non-actions changes events in some way, but often, whenever you do something, you broadcast honesty, sincerity or not. Many people feel underlying thoughts. They listen to what you say and they feel what you do or don't do and how much you push through.

When an underlying thought is in contradiction with an action, the action will (in the short or the long run) not be as pushed through/or be as pure as an action which thoughts are fully/all directed towards the same goal. This means that your thoughts are the source of the quality of your actions.

The thoughts shine through, because you perspire them (=broadcast is another word for this)

So, when you have good intentions, when you have a good goal, when you want to do good, but when you do not act towards that, in fact this means another, stronger thought has won and that thought is not necessarily representative for who you are, but it is the winner-thought and in physical life. There has to be a winner thought, because your body is an instrument made to show yourself what you let win through action or non-action.

Therefore I pop the question: Are we what we DO in the end, or are we what we THINK we are?

Now about the money-matters :
We say money rules the world. I do not believe that. Money is for many people a synonym of freedom of choice and safety. Both elements are necessary to one’s healthy development, both physical and mental. If you look around you, you will notice that many people search more for freedom, freedom of choice, security, hope, happiness, love and that many people think money is the tool to achieve all those goals, while it is not.

If it where, nobody rich and famous would be depressed, suicidal or searching for hopeful illusions in drugs.

With love,

Wanderer

Very good points, Spooky...

Traveller, it is wise not to dwell too much on our mistakes in our physical life.  It is enough to know, yes, I perhaps could have done better in that circumstance, and leave well enough alone.  Life gives us so many opportunities to improve ourselves. 

If we have done something that we simply can't forgive ourselves for, we can go to the offended party and ask forgiveness.  That is enough.

We are only human and that means we will have varying responses to circumstances due to our emotional and physical states.  What is important is that we focus on love, of ourselves and others.  It is healing and is always right.

love, blink