One possibility (and a highly recommended one from personal experience), would be to do a Hilarion Reading, to hear out his perspective and advice, and of course, decide for *yourself* what you want to do or achieve, eg. in terms of your relationship with her.
The Hilarion Reading :
http://infinity.hispeed.com/Heart.Of.God/main.htm#Hilarion Relationships are certainly to be cherished and honoured. And most often, it is our own capacity for lucidity or clarity, in terms of being able to understand the true meaning of the issues within the relationship, that determines how successful (in the greater spiritual/consciential context) a relationship is.
The concept of the Evolutionary Duo (even more intimate and powerful than the idea of 'soul mates' or 'twin souls'!), the most blessed and highest possible coupling, of a man and woman during intraphysical incarnation, is certainly something that is close to all our hearts :
Evolutionary Duo :
http://infinity.hispeed.com/Heart.Of.God/IAC/index.htm#EvolutionaryDuo