hey there Wolf...you won't believe anything we say until you experience it for yourself, but thought I'd throw in my 2 cents, maybe it will help.
after my hubby died I had to know what he was up to. I had one up on most people because I knew for certain there was an afterlife and all kinds of spirits and helpers and friends I never met yet.
but what was Mike doing? my Mike was never what u call ambitious anyway.
I went obe and watched him puttering in his house. I'm not kidding. I was amazed. they putter in heaven. hmm. lol. I noticed right away he had made for himself a sunken living room floor, exactly like the one in the rental we had first started our life together. I thought, well, he must have really liked it, I liked it too, but not enough I would make myself one in the afterlife. so I conclude the afterlife is pretty much just like this reality, only there's more time to putter. and you can have your cabin a whole lot easier than u can attain one here. love, alysia