Dear L,
To me one of the interesting aspects of Jesus' teaching is his refusal to offer public clarifications of His parables. He taught that spirituality is better caught than taught and wanted his audience to meditate on what we might call the archetypal character of his parables until their intuition slowly grasped the truth through an Aha! experience. I guess that's another way of saying that he deplored second-hand spirituality.
I believe that no valuable spiritual learning occurs until you have the time to sort through your life experience and see if a new insight rings true. Sometimes we who pretend to be teachers do more harm than good with our drive to be comprehensive and clear. We leave our audience with a purely left-brain reaction to what we share and, as a result, we make little difference. That's why I think spiritual learning is best conducted through warm relationships nurtured over time. Timing can be everything. The right question or answer at the right time can transform, whereas, at the wrong time, it merely proves to be an intellectual distraction. That's where prayerful meditation plays a crucial role. It can help the wannabe teacher discern when to shut up or change the subject to allow the learner the incubation period she needs to achieve deep-rooted spiritual breakthroughs. I think your delight in sifting the wheat from the chaff is a healthy sign that your journey is truly unique and your ultimate insights will be reliable and deeply satisfying. So keep on lurking here and critiquing us until you get what you want. And if we occasionally disappoint you, emerge from the woodwork and give us a verbal thrashing to see what we're made of. Maybe that can shake the right restatements from us.
Don
Don