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Axel
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Learning or experiencing?
Mar 29th, 2005 at 7:33am
 
Instead of thinking of life as a school where we come to learn (boring concept),why not think of life as a place where we come and experience all different feelings,actions,emotions?
Who on earth as never been hurtful?We have all been one day hurtful to someone else,then,does it mean that we have to pay for that (kharma concept) or that we would been seen up there as devils?
To me,there is no good and bad.To me,these are just our inventions, beliefs.That is why we experience so much trauma.I am not saying that hurting is necessary, but it can be a part of the game.That is why i think that the "monroe loosh" and "Bruce Moen PUL" are interpretations of what they experience there. And i think that the idea of being "limited" in our life with good actions is quite restrictive.Do we have to fight even in heaven to be free,to behave and speak freely?Or is there a "God dictator" who tells us what to do and what not to do?There have been wars,murders and all sort of hurtful feelings and actions throughtout history, then, in my view,this concept of "good and bad" doesn't stand...hmmm...what do you think? Wink
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Reply #1 - Mar 29th, 2005 at 6:29pm
 
Earlier in my life I was completely into the karma thing.  And all it did was....well it just depressed me and made me not want to go on in life.  What's the point...everytime I made a mistake I was going to have to pay for it later?  Forget it then, I don't want to pay twice and feel guilt for the mistake I made and then have to go through the actual experience again.

So then I thought...maybe we only experience what we did to someone else if our soul decides it would be beneficial to our growth or just because we want to experience it...and not an actual set in stone law we all have to follow through on.

Or maybe we only going through harsh experiences because we have been taught that is how life is, and our very thoughts attract it into our lives.  Where if we only expected and focused on good things, then we would only attract that into our life (that would take a lot of unlearning and a lot of faith on our part to accomplish.)  I think this goes along the lines of -stop playing the victim.  (The exception to this in my mind is when a loved one dies...I don't believe our thoughts attract this into our life...therefore I'm not completely sold on this philosophy or maybe just don't understand it completely.)

Then I got a message from my great grandma (died when I Was 11) in one of the exercises that you do in a Bruce Moen workshop, and I've been thinking on it ever since.  She just said, "Have all the fun you can in this life, and I will see you in the next." (Thanks Joe for passing this important message on to me from my great grandma).

Don't ask me why this 'simple' message had the effect on me that it did.  But it had never occured to me to 'have fun' while here.  What did she mean have fun?  But life is suppose to be hard work, and sacrifice, and ....have fun?  Because it came from my great grandma who I admired and loved, I took it to heart.

While trying to apply it in life I started seeing situations in a different light and just feeling different about how things really are.  And just as you mentioned  - even wondered...do we just come here to experience different things?  Is it like a big playground?  Maybe there isn't good or bad or right or wrong...just experiences.  

Or here's another thought, one of my favorite quotes (I'm doing this from memory so excuse me if I blunder it) from the 3rd Matrix movie.  The oracle said, The decisions have already been made....the reason you come here is to find out why you made the decisions you did.  Well that's a different way of looking at it.

Or maybe for each life there is an infinite number (or somewhere in that neighborhood) of "yous" all living out every possible choice or decision you could ever make and is experiencing every possiblity?  That way we play the good guy, bad guy, stupid guy, ignorant guy, brilliant guy, all within the 'you' you are now.  Then mix that with the thousands of different lives 'you' have had at different time periods..and wow...that would certainly be something to write home about.  I know personally my mind has a hard time wrapping around that concept...but it doesn't mean that it isn't possible.  We don't want to limit our possiblities with only things our human minds can comprehend.  

What do these all have to do with each other?  Nothing.  I haven't come to any conclusion on any of this, and this is where my thoughts are scattered at the moment (welcome to my world...muwahahahah).  I look forward to reading what others have to say on this, and hope to have some new thoughts to ponder on this topic.  

Jenn
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Reply #2 - Mar 29th, 2005 at 8:15pm
 
Well hi there, Jenn, I was wondering if that was you. I'm glad to see you posting both here and in Linn's forum.

Yes, wasn't that the seminar we had in Renton! Can't forget it.

Blessings to you and yours, hope your mom's doing well.

Love from Joe Meboe and hosts Greg and Dianne Meboe
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Reply #3 - Mar 29th, 2005 at 9:30pm
 
Axel - I am more of fan of referring to life as "experiencing" rather than "learning".

experience seems to fit better with the idea of free will and that destiny is not set in stone. 

curiosity of course is the driver for experience and explains why you would rather experience the unexperienced (for example a life as a murderer or vagabond) rather than just spend life after life as Justin Timbalake or Cameron Diaz...

I really like the following interpretation or view as to the meaning of life:

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quite literally if you are not experiencing fun, discontinue the direction that you are expressing.  The point is you are exploring yourself in a physical dimension. The nature of consciousness is to explore itself. The nature of essence is to explore itself and thusly expand, and you choose to be engaging this action in a physical dimension. It is a game. Perception is extremely powerful; it generates your game. It generates all of your objective imagery, all of your physical manifestations.

In this, it is your choice how you shall play the game, and there is no wrong manner of playing the game. Some individuals choose to play the game in
sorrow and suffering and conflict, and this is no less of a choice of diversity than to be choosing happiness and joyfulness. The point is the fun. Some individuals do express fun in conflict; others do not. This is also the significance of knowing you and what you generate.


I think we come here for the experience and in particular the desire to know more of ourselves in each of these various experiences.

10 points if you can guess who the quote's from?  Wink

Scott

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Reply #4 - Mar 29th, 2005 at 11:34pm
 
Hi Jenn, just some minor musing here.
You were talking about your not feeling any affinity for karma.
I also feel little connection to it, because it has so seldom
turned up in reading actual things that happen. I don't come across
actual experience that relates to it.

But I did notice a curious thing in your dream that could look
karmic if one chose to see it that way. You poisoned someone, then
found that you were on the list to be murdered, along with another
person. And those people on the list had, if one chose to say it, a
karmic destiny to fulfill.

I don't worry about dreams much, but this dream was part of a
process that cured your asthma. Therefore it is a significant
puzzle to work on. But I would not say that there was necessarily a
verification of anything in the dream, because they are so hard to
interpret.

The dream had to be some kind of closure, to do what it did. That
is, it fits the classic case of cures of this type, where all you
had to do is pull something out and look at it, and that did the
cure.

It could be that we create the need for karma by believing in
it. Thus you could say, oh I did this, now my karma is due, and
thus set up the need for karmic closure.

I hope I have worked through all the things I did wrong,
and I don't want to carry any of the negatives to my next life.
I certainly concur with the idea of having all the fun you can
in life. How nice to receive that as a directive from heaven!
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Reply #5 - Mar 30th, 2005 at 2:49am
 
I think you should not overlook the Karma thing as this is a very old old doctrine of the very earliest and as our human thoughts all revolve around good and bad then why not have a judgement on your acceptance from this life into your next state of awareness, the judgement will determine your human life mostly good or bad and weigh them up! Most people i come accross in life will have no problems with their karma as they mostly live honest lives! Why worry about karma if your life has mostly been good! You must live over 50% of your life bad to be in a hell state!(or so i believe)
Just my thought on how belief of karma can make you a slightly better person knowing it has a detremental effect on your next state of awareness! Just making an effort to be good and honest in life is more than enough on judgemental day, Small wrong's we all do in life can not be more than the love for familly and others on a percentage scale throughout our exhistance! I think the Karma thing is to protect ourselfs from doing seriouslly bad thinks! That does detter me from doing them!
I hope i havent offended anyone if my interpretation of karma is wrong by their knowledge! but it helps me! Smiley
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Reply #6 - Mar 30th, 2005 at 3:02am
 
Hi Scotty...this quote comes either from Seth either from Elias,am i correct? Wink
Thank you for your post Jen.I totally share your view about the purpose of life.So many people will try to make you feel guilty because you did something wrong,but the fact is that we all do mistakes and that if there was a heaven,then nobody would be allowed to go there...I don't even share the idea that we have higher selves,and these higher selves judge us...i think that we all totally free in our expressions! Wink
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Reply #7 - Mar 30th, 2005 at 1:48pm
 
Now I do recall two cases that have a karma-like quality.

A German fighter pilot who was shot down in England during World
War 2 was reborn as an Englishman. This is well documented.

Admiral Yamahoto, who planned the Pearl Harbor attack (not sure I
have his name right) was reborn as an American. He traveled to
Japan, recognized the place, and last I heard lives there.
(I don't have the documentation of this handy.)

Being reborn as the children of your enemies has a nice touch to
it.
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Reply #8 - Mar 30th, 2005 at 4:10pm
 
don't even like the sound of the word karma, but have to admit that karma is like merging one way of doing something with a more modern way of doing the same thing. it's always a little uncomfortable to break old habits and try something new when you were quite comfortable with a horse and buggy to get around in for instance. now they have these gasoline engines...oh never mind...I think there's a choice to take on challenges, maybe you want to see if you can actually live your plan, but I don't think the helpfulness of the planning commission is twisting anyone's arm to come here and bite off more than we can chew.

as to karma I was told something long ago by a trusted psychic of the church I went to. I even shelled out some money for this, which u won't catch me shelling out cash these days for past life info. comes a point where u don't care what you've been; only matters what you are now. well I blew off the reading but I did remember it. she said I was an onery zealous missionary bent on christening all the natives who were unlucky enough to fall under me scathing tongue. I messed up their lives. of course I would not want to hear about this; I had wanted to hear that maybe I had done something grand or good. most of the lives she listed were ordinary and I think that goes for most of us. so as to the karma bit, I came back this time to try to straighten out my earliar zealism as concerning religion; is why I'm writing a book from two different points of view; dead preacher guy, and laughing rain. the two talk to each other in it and slowly begin their merging process taking what's good and true from religious ideas and blending them into their spiritual basis rather than throwing the baby out with the bath water. I always ask myself if I was this guy. I try not to confuse the reader so I stick with the idea he's in my disc and is acting as guide. makes it simpler. whatever happened in between lives he realized his mistake and I feel he didn't have to come and fix anything. I think he just wanted another chance to alleviate a bit of the struggle going on here and participate in the shift coming in and learn to love folks rather than boss them around so much according to theology ideas and interpretations. life can be fun, it doesn't have to be all work and no play. and it's also possible to be here and to suddenly realize this is your last life here if you want it to be that way. Want u all to know I enjoy talking with you (actually I'm typing to you on this new fangled computer y'all got these days) lol. believe in yourselves, have your own experiences and enjoy your lives as much as possible, as they are temporary in nature insofar as physical goes. love, alysia...
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Reply #9 - Mar 30th, 2005 at 7:37pm
 
A lot of interesting ideas being shared in this thread.  I will add my own two cents.

I think life on earth is more about learning than experiencing, but it is both.  I think for many people, coming to earth might be mostly about learning how to find God, truth, goodness, and love in a place where these things tend to be obscured and overshadowed by falsehoods and evil.  It's about learning how to recognize what is important, and about building willpower to become a source of light rather than just a receiver of light.  Learning to choose between options, to choose to serve others rather than self, to choose the difficult path of faith and hope rather than cynicism and negativity.  Learning to build heaven within, when the world around you can seem like hell.  Building spiritual muscle, with which to create and do wonderful things in the afterlife that we can only dream about here.

The real fun begins after we die.  That's when we get to be in heaven.  Earth is only preparation for the bliss that awaits us.  It's a character-building experience.

Those are some of my thoughts.

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Reply #10 - Mar 30th, 2005 at 9:35pm
 
Hi Axel and Jenn -

If you experience something it alters your knowledge, hence you learn. If you learn, you must directly or vicariously have an experience. I prefer Jenn's attitude of having fun, and whatever it is, just do it.

However, on the serious side, karma is feedback that assists us to have fun. Example: You drive your car. Karma (cause and effect relationships) causes the gas guage to read low. That is a samskara (seed for karmic effects.) Maybe you ignore it the first time, and get stuck. (Ugh.) So you avoid the karma next time by filling the tank. Off to the beach to have fun, thanks to your gas guage karma indicator.

Alysa- that psychic had a batch of bad gas, I'd say, and vented it on you If you want to do a past life regression, do it yourself. It's extremely easy, requires little more than deep relaxation, and a little guidance.  Try the IARRT for a profession or a local (comptent)  hypnotist for a quick investigation.
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Reply #11 - Mar 31st, 2005 at 6:21am
 
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Hi Axel and Jenn -

If you experience something it alters your knowledge, hence you learn. If you learn, you must directly or vicariously have an experience.




Hi Dave.I disagree with your statement.I don't think that we manifest here to learn,because,if we are PERFECT,EXTREMELY VAST and POWERFUL higher selves or beings,then i don't see what we could learn.For example,you don't learn how to have your breakfast,because once you have done it once,you know how to do it the second time.You don't learn how to watch the TV,because you just need to do it once and then you remember how to do it.And as you know,dear Dave,the actions in our lives are very repetitive.
That is why i think that we manifest to experience different emotions and actions,like a game,when you take your playstation and press "START",then you play,you have fun until you get bored.And once you get bored,you finnish your game (like when we disengage).
  All these beliefs about "learning" come from all these corrupted religions,whose aim has always been to frighten,brainwash and control people. In my view,freedom is valid even in the afterlife. Wink
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Reply #12 - Mar 31st, 2005 at 11:32am
 
Hi Friends,  I have a couple of pennies in my pocket, let me lay them on the table...  'Karma' points to something simple; that WE are the authors of our experience. Our own hand holds the brush that paints the world we see. I don't see 'Karma' as a mechanical system to reward or punish. I think the idea is just that we are not separate from the world we see, that our actions are meaningful and have creative force...   This realm is both a playground of experience and a place of learning.  I've had the same experience repeat itself in different forms, until I finally hear the message the experience is saying. Some experiences seem to arise to deliver messages. Listening to them is a natural thing to do, but that's not 'school', we're not getting graded on this. You can't fail... My view is something like:  we are 'perfect, extremely vast and powerful beings' and we're in an evolutionary process, it isn't static, there's a creative thing going on...  hey, my 2 cents!   Tim
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Reply #13 - Mar 31st, 2005 at 12:00pm
 
well said Tim, worth more than 2 cents, my pov. nothing teachs me like experience. for instance experiencing giving birth. nothing quite like it. i doubt I'd have learned anything about how a heart can become so full with love that it threatens to spill water from the eyes from the grief of loving too much. I wouldn't trade this life for anything better, not even the bliss of heaven which does not exist for me in traditional conjecture. Tim is right. we can amaze ourselves for the gain of experience.

Dave, I did regress myself much later. but I don't put it in your professional terms. I later saw this life as a part of me, as a part of an experience I understood intimately associated with my pattern of being. I saw many lives as energy fields which overlap, as when we lay the body down, we become and are an energy field, or ball of light if you wish. words are hard to communicate with. I surely am knowing that.

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Reply #14 - Mar 31st, 2005 at 4:23pm
 
I guess the definition of 'karma' itself is up for discussion as well.  

The 'karma' I don't buy into is the...I killed a man by shooting him...in this life or another I will be shot to know what I put the man through.  Unless, my soul chooses to go through that experience.

I totally believe in cause and effect.  Everything I do will have an effect on everyone around me and vice versa. I'm still viewing this as an experience, vs a lesson.  

I guess I wonder also about the 'my soul is already in a state of perfection' so what am I here learning?  I'm not saying I believe that it is 100% true, but it is the line of thought that I have started to drift towards, kind of like a 'what if' daydream.  And maybe I just need to see another point of view for awhile outside of where I have been thinking (thinking outside the box)...and perhaps it is just where I need to be in my current 'learning'? (How's that for a thought...needing to think that life is only for experience to learn an important lesson  Grin )

Perhaps karma was for those who needed to believe in karma to keep from doing bad things?  (This is just a thought...please nobody explode on me  Grin )  There is a quote that I love that kind of illustrates my point that I'm going to paraphase here...."A lock is not to keep away the thief, it's to keep an honest man honest."  Maybe the philosophy of karma was to keep the honest man honest?  I don't personally need to believe in karma to not do bad things.  I don't do bad things because of my love and compassion for the other person or people...not because of being threatened of being punished.

I know karma is a very old thought...but maybe humans are growing (learning?...this is so confusing  Tongue ) spiritually to a point of not 'needing' it anymore?  Maybe we are outgrowing it's purpose?  Now that I've talked myself into a circle  Grin, I think I'll stop here.  (Sometimes it's hard being a Gemini and being able to see both sides of a discussion  Tongue )

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