hello there to whomever...I deleted the above reference to a chapter being available as the book in reference is on the way to the publisher.  It's called Roadsigns, Shifting Gears Between Two Worlds. Whew. glad it's done. I cannot give a publishing date as I don't have that yet and don't know if I am accepted yet. will let the board know as soon as I know something. sorry for taking up space here with promises to deliver....I get a little excited now and then   love, peace and light, alysia