below: a post from Justin on another thread:

Perhaps the reason why we suffer,  for the experience-knowledge.  I am inclined to believe that maybe there are only two states of being in our little Earth marble game--Love and UnLove.   All of us have experienced UnLove to greater and lesser extent, and true for Love to some degree as well.  But very few experience PUL energy (pure uncondional love) in any deeper or consistent way from others here in-physical.  Nor do many of us consistently project and live it.  Perhaps that is a generalization, if it is so sue me.
  but seriously if we did (love more) the world would be in much better shape than it is in right now, right?
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right, Justin. right. right. right. lol. I'd just add that unloving is a fear based projection, or better than that, can be seen as a call for love. thus we have the two single emotions to consider from (ACIM) there are only two motivations love or fear. in my pov, one is either extending love or calling out for love.
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Justin:
  I believe everything that has been a challenge, painful, disillusioning etc. has been a catalyst for me learning to put that energy out more and more.  For example,  I consider my step-father my greatest teacher, even though he never consciously showed love and was quite unloving in many respects.   When i learned to forgive him entirely and fully, i learned a higher expression of love.  And in turn, a weight lifted off me and i became a happier person.
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my experience also Justin, except it wasn't a stepfather. it was my mother. being an ACIM student, the key to happiness is listed as "forgiveness." relationships here are of paramount importance in learning forgiveness. the weight is lifted then. the goey black stuff is dissolved around the heart strings.
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Justin:
many people who seem to "have it all" and who seem happy, are really some of the least happy people on earth.  I've met some very "down and out" people who have had a radiant happiness and positivity to them, judging by the worlds standards they should be miserable, but when you live and function from Spirit regardless of your material circumstances, you seem to get other "benefits". I'm fairly poor materially, sheesh i have to use a library p.c., but i live almost everyday in consistent joy, peace, and gratefullness .
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heres Justin who goes to the library just to share himself with us. this I find remarkable. I suspect PUL is the motivator of his energy. I often think about the way we all come together to post here in this mini world. I often have to tear myself away from the computer just to get some sunshine or feed the dogs, or whatever. what is this thing within us that is a need to "come together" to communicate? would it be PUL? or would we come here to scream for some?  would we be creating of it here? in this little mini world of some 2,000 readers? the question Justin brings up
quote:
(But very few experience PUL energy (pure uncondional love) in any deeper or consistent way from others here in-physical.  Nor do many of us consistently project and live it.)
me:
is important to me. and I would ask why. I ask myself why it appears as true that few project and live what is called PUL and could it be true that living in consistent joy, peace and gratefulness might be as easy as falling off a log if we let it? and could we dissect PUL in discussing it? or should we even try? would we just ruin it if we did try to dissect it? lol. perhaps. I think we come here to discover or redisover this thing called PUL, maybe we can just call it community. somebody called PUL a glue and that's a pretty good analogy.  I trust Monroe's explanation of crops of loosh being gathered here in a spiritual sense and behind the scenes. lol. thanks a lot Bob Monroe. I am now in the fields tending the crop of self. may the locusts and the bollweavils not come this year!   so c'mon gang, what is PUL? I need your help. why do poets never cease to write of it? why does love make the world turn 'round? why do we whine if we see it's absence? when it's right in our face, why do we fail to recognize it? and what about the endless politicians who promise alleviation from suffering to the masses? lol. u don't actually believe them do you? they are living on a wish to see something happen also.
and to Dora whom I would understand, you brought this up for me by saying "it has nothing to do with love." Perhaps you meant in this regard, it has only to do with what you believe. I would only add to that it has also to do with what you want to believe and what you want to believe you can create that as true for yourself. Perhaps PUL is more than it seems at first glance, perhaps it is the very creative substance we live within and mold to our desires and suffering can be redefined also in this regard.  it does have everything to do with love from my pov  and is synonomous with acceptance of the world without crumbling from it's presentations of unlove which is alluding us in directions away from peace of mind. is the world ready for peace of mind during this shift, or is it just me? how many people out there wish to lay down your arms? lets all start committing random acts of kindness and see what happens in a world wide way. lol. I'm going outside now. what would I do without the internet? probably die! nah, I'd think of something to do. lol.

ACIM (A course in Miracles) affirmation: "When you wish to see only love, love is all that you will see."

  Well LOL it is actually quite a pleasure to come to the library to share and to communicate with you all  

  Great post Alysia, i like how you elaborated on some of my above quotes.   I've never read ACIM but from what i have read of the quotes here and from other places, it seems like an awesome book with a lot to say of import.

And i very much agree!, "it does have everything to do with love from my pov  and is synonomous with acceptance of the world without crumbling from it's presentations of unlove which is alluding us in directions away from peace of mind."

Just wanted to say that i think you have an awesome way of putting things into a clear, broadmined, easy to understand, and sometimes even poetic, perspective.   Ya got a special way with words and heres to you