ahh, my favorite subject of all! I was lucky? enough to get this question answered personally, and just expressing here so I can learn how to put words around it as I used to think it so unfair to be floating about not knowing where u are but knowing you are alive and there but perhaps not accounted for in your own mind. was in a motel in reality with me body. woke up the next morning thinking, wow! I didn't really die, so's I get another chance at this! whoopee! nothing like getting back to the body and actually appreciating the home it provides temporarily. I was a retriever and didn't understand how these folk could possibly not grasp their condition. so I became one of them in a sense, although it was only a belief system crash taking a form and dying, then getting retrieved by the love of my daughter. I didn't know where the heck I was (the experience) I had no memories of where I belonged and who my people were. the thought that came was "I have to find a group to join, I like to yak about things, maybe we can save the world, whatever. the feeling I coasted forward on was a sense of curiosity and adventure which displaced anxiety for the most part. I found some groups to join in with but they couldn't see me or hear me. so I raised my voice and put more emphasis into my tone. I managed to get one guy's attention who knew a "ghost" was there, not only was a ghost there, this one was talking! ha ha! the subject they were discussing changed to the ghost in the room. at that point I felt very uncomfortable to realize something was wrong. I gravitated in an unconscious way to my family; my daughter was doing dishes as I floated above her head. to me floating above people's head is natural, so I didn't think I was dead yet, maybe just out of body. I asked her why people couldn't see me and were treating me weird. she told me I was dead. at that moment I was shockingly awakened but knew exactly what I must do in that case. the feeling that came over me was exactly what the feeling was during the movie when Thelma and Louise went off the cliff! whoaaa!!!! took all the courage that was in my soul to do it. just raised my arms and reached for whatever was there, not knowing if it would accept me or not but knowing if I was dead then I couldn't stay on this physical plane imposing myself into other's business as a ghost. ok, I'm the nosy type, whatever.it was fun all in all!