I've had many "odd" dreams along those lines. 

Perhaps, especially those who seem to be "pulled" into a hell BST..they are living in a hell reality..that is, in physical reality.  Maybe..by reaching out to them in the dreamscape..you can then reach out to them in physical reality?

My own son was living in a self-imposed hell.  The harder I tried to reach him here..the further he retreated.  I finally stopped reaching out in this physical reality, and only reached out spiritually.  That's not to say I stopped communicating with him.  Far from it.  I simply stopped trying to pull him from his self-imposed hell from a physical standpoint.  I reached out through thoughts, meditations and dreams.  And that finally reached him.  For now.  I continue to reach out in this manner.  Connecting more so on a nonreality level, rather than a physical reality level.

Perhaps there are members of your family who are either living in or heading for these self-created hells..in physical or nonphysical reality?

hi there Petrus. I'd like to interpret this dream although I think you have an excellent handle on it! it's fun for me though.
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Hey everyone...
Last night I had a dream that I and my entire immediate family had died, that we were together in the Afterlife, and that I was putting together an enormous house for myself and them, with parts of it simply appearing as I thought of them.
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the creative thing about this dream is that "parts of it simply appearing is the way it has been described to be in the afterlife, which is the now life. I have read references to this in many books; that thoughts create existance on the other side. it appears you do believe in this afterlife as you are doing all this "after death."
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 I can remember spending a lot of time in the dream with a younger brother in particular...I felt that he had not been very happy in life, and so I was trying hard to do different things to cheer him up.  The house had different levels and one of the main things I can remember doing was haltingly flying from one level to the next.  That was probably only the third dream I've had with flight in it, so I figured it was significant somehow.
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had lots of flight dreams myself and they always seem more significant than the others at first. when I think about being without a body I know I will not have the law of gravity to deal with. so you are right there's no reason not to think about being able to float, fly, bounce, move however we can conceive of it. helping your brother to cheer up shows your caring nature and he will pick up your care and be heartened by it. our families are so important.
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In the dream, after I'd finished building the house, I actually went and visited an uncle who in waking reality was sent to jail a few years ago.
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I have an ex pedophile in my family also. he had changed before death, so he did not end up in a hell zone BST. it's in my book. a major crossroads.
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 The BST/construct that I initially found him in looked like a very small house...bedroom, tiny kitchen, and one other room...that was basically it.  He was unhappy, and I tried to encourage him to leave that particular construct...He started to, but just before I woke up I saw him being pulled towards a hell BST.  He appeared to be panicking as though he didn't want to go into it, but he was still being drawn into it all the same.
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small house, small mind I guess. but theres no reason to think he won't get some help in his BST. I think especially with family members like yourself who send thoughts of hope and caring.
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The thing I didn't understand was that the dream involved people who are still alive...as I am myself of course.   What could that mean?
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because I think because of all your research and thought about the afterlife you are bring the two worlds into cohesion and you'll start to see more signs that you are breaking through to this greater awareness. I started out just relating to non physical beings and very soon I started dreaming and even talking lucidly to people still alive here within a dreamscape that looked like holograms. I watched myself interact from another stance. then I knew it was me, I was the creator of my world and my after world was the same world I see. love, alysia