Dear All,

Yesterday, my grandmother died at the age of 89. It was no surprise to any of my family as she has been in bed for the last 10 years and was very weak lately.

I tried a retreival last night to try if I can help her, but had no success I followed the example mentioned in one of Bruce's articles. Its either I am doing something wrong or maybe its something else.

What worries me is the following...my grandmother was one of those strict christian religious persons, with a dogmatic view. So, her believes and perceptions are quite stuck, fixed...and she was very stubborn!

Apart from this, 10 years ago she got Alzheimer Disease...that means that she lived her last 8 years in a bed like a vegtable...not even knowing that she exists...and I am afraid that this will affect her in the afterlife.

I would like to help her, but I do not know what I can do, since I did not manage to retrieve her last night.

Can anyone please give me some hints what can I do or maybe what I might be doing wrong?

Thanks a lot!
Stefan