I don't think you are a hog at all. I don't talk about my sexual experiences in my dreams overhere. I keep them private, I don't want them public to anyone on the internet.
The posters here are very adult so you won't get stupid reactions from them, but I am still on my guard towards them. I am not at that good terms with all of them and you don't know how it may be used against you.
This is internet. Everything you write here is no longer private, but accessible to anyone, everywhere.
If you have trouble with that in person does not mean you are a hog. The problem could well be with the other ones. It's very much a matter of perspective. But I don't know you that very good nor the people that you go around with.
The book
Between Life and Dead learned me a lot about magikal powers and how people go around with that. It's a free book on the internet, perhaps you would like to read it.