recoverer wrote on Aug 31st, 2010 at 3:19pm:It's possible that for the most part people who go through a hospice program that takes a spiritually effective approach aren't in need of a retrievel after they die.
I agree it probably reduces the odds on average and in general. For awhile some years ago, i worked as an in home caretaker with folks usually quite elderly.
One man i worked with, i will call him "Joe", seemed afraid of dying by the way he talked about it. He told me that when he was younger, he thought about becoming a priest, but ended up becoming a very good figure skater instead.
Anyways, we would talk sometimes about God, the afterlife, and related issues.
Even then, i felt on some levels i was helping him to prepare for dying and not getting stuck.
But the point was driven home a bit later. I had to quit that job because i was moving from MA to VA. About 3 weeks later after moving down to VA, a former co-worker called me up and told me that Joe had just died.
About a couple weeks or so after that while in meditation, all of a sudden a visual along with the personality "feel" of "Joe" popped strongly into my minds eye, and i felt a lot of love and gratitude/appreciation streaming from him to me. It seems like he was able to bypass the stuck part for the most part in his transition and i get a sense that our previous talks had something to do with it despite that he wasn't specifically in a hospice program.
So, i think hospice type work is very important.. it's kind of a retrieval preventative. In some ways, "retrievals" that take place here, might be more important to partake in than in the less physical oriented, "inbetween" levels.
As a fellow pragmatic Cappy Sun wrote almost a few hundred years ago, "an ounce of prevention is worth more than a pound of cure." seems sage and apropos advice.