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Isn't it all about desire, wanting what is perceived to be more available....and willingness, to do what is necessary to achieve the goal?
When adrenaline or some of our other body chemicals 'kick in' then 'conventional reality' can disappear for a human. There is such a thing as blind rage, or the physical urges to survive and bear young to further the species. Those are certainly very strong motivators, with much mind/body support for their expression.
How about the urge to 'go along' with others who are physically stronger? Doesn't it stem from desire - for security?
I would have to say, we can blame it on fear, various emotional states, 'a killer gene' (does that exist?), etc. etc.
But isn't the tendency to blame also based on desire - for a solution, for an answer that 'makes sense' to us.
Do we try to 'make' this world make sense? Is it our desire to confine it and explain it to each other?
Does that make it any easier? Can we ever speak to others in such a way that understanding will always be achieved? That appears doubtful to me, using only words aimed to convince the other of the 'rightness' of one side or position to take in a situation.
I personally find it much easier to put myself aside for a while, to find the 'love' state which is also natural to our being - when it is cultivated. It is easier to function in a peaceful way when in the 'love' state.
I believe it is within a 'frame of mind' - let us call it 'nonmercy' or 'lack of mercy' for self and others - that killing takes place. If the 'decision' to kill were delayed until the 'love state' could be revisited, many problems would be solved. New solutions appear when a person is in the 'love state' which is a state of fullness, not a state of lack.
When fully in the 'love state' then any 'killing' would be those acts based on mercy, perhaps an action to relieve suffering of some kind, so to put a creature out of a miserable situation.
However, honestly, in the fullest state of love, I don't know if that is possible. In the fullest state of love, I believe there is a kind of 'acceptance' which has no interest in 'self' of any kind.
love, b
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