yes I was talking to a friend how when 2 physical people are in a room, there are really 4 physical people in the room.
took me awhile to understand that I think physical is real. when physical is also energy construct with form.
so there's self images to look at. for we hold an image of how we think the other is, while they are holding yet a different self image of themselves, to be their truth.
then of course we hold our own self images to be the true one, and they theirs..you end up with four people all talking at once.
and this mirroring thing as you spoke of it, we do mirror these self images back and forth.
because we do this, human nature it is, I've developed a listening technique..that is to brush aside my first impression, not to get rid of those impressions, but store them somewhere, while I listen more closely to what they say, what they do.
actions speak louder than words, so observer function must enter, but listening with an open mind will allow the mind to see them as they see themselves, not as you want them to be, but as they really are.
have to go read the rest of that article...thanks for responding.