wow Jetman, not sure I can interpret this dream correctly but I'm over grinning because my given name was Rose and I'm looking to crash out of here.

I am thinking that changing the direction of the energy is a clue to your dream which is something we can all do in the changes up ahead for all of us, so we are not unduly "shocked."

it is natural for your wife to play heroics. it's in all of us to try to save others from death. the dream shows you have good logical processes and a protective nature and your wife appears to be able to recover from  this thing that just falls nearby suddenly.
If the plane crashing was to be seen as this here board, the pilot is Bruce Moen. As some of us know he has suffered one heart attack already. We do not know how much time any of us have to be living here. His higher self may yank him out. More important things to be doing on the other side my guess.

If Bruce does take off for the higher planes, nobody knows whether this conversation board will have a reason and/or funds to continue being a board for long. therefore we lose our links to one another as a place to express ourselves and be joining. other such boards are out there however.

serious thoughts. may not have anything to do with your dream whatsoever. just sharing my own thoughts.

the man digging, is digging up dirt. it seems unrelated to the sudden crashing. but digging up dirt can be a symbol of trying to do something, like trying to find the truth, which is hard to find "facts" and then it's all over, so it's too late to change the direction of the energy.

all the more reason to concentrate on offering our energy to each other when we can.
please accept my humble offerings..it's all I had in my bag this morn. what a ride this place is.