Hi Lucy, this seems like a person we could put in the Partnered Exploration thread as it's not a healing request or retrieval as you say but you are seeking some questions which might be answered over there, you never know what might be drummed up. might be worthwhile.

maybe you could try your own self though first. None of us have a connection to this person, and you have a name, we don't have a name, so it's difficult without some sort of ID. lately, I'm working off pictures. we don't usually get pictures here. sometimes retrievals are going on behind this board with emails. then we get a name and it's easier.

since you have the name, you could try contacting their higher self or even your higher self?

yes, there could be deceptive beings in the lower astral who can look like someone they are not.
I agree, the mother could be going obe, out of concern and this could be picked up as her presence.
does this appear to you as a difficult transition? love, alysia

Lucy wrote on Apr 19^th, 2008 at 11:00pm:


you're right. It's hard these days to know where to post what! we have so many rooms. whatever u think best is fine with me Lucy. U said u didn't think it was a retrieval, so I suggested the PE thread  as we've been working a healing circle there; each week one person goes into it.

it seems theres a bit of shyness there; we don't get a lot of participation yet for someone to actually ask to be the target takes a massive courage, my opinion. after all, who can trust the internet?

so that was my thought about this. personally, you're right, at 9/11 we didn't need names. I only made two runs there, and in one, I just watched other retrievers working it. the one I did do, was real to me, a fireman or maintenance worker and I didn't have a name. however, I was emotionally involved in that situation, keyed up so to speak.
I think though that making a retrieval request should be worded "Retrieval Request" on the title of wherever u place it, in case someone here wants to do it. It's up to their guidance.

I would need first name, or a picture, or a word picture, description of basics, such as "there's a ghost sitting on my bed at night, it's scaring my wife, can u help us?"

this would make one curious perhaps, providing motivation to do a retrieval. and this really happened to me here. it was a successful retrieval. however, I don't do much of those retrievals anymore. I am just available and willing if spirit says do it (a punch in the solar plexus, or just a knowing this one is for me, something like that.) but I'll tell u Lucy, I'd rather teach you to do it yourself if I knew how to teach it. You seem like a person could do it but don't know u can do it.
oh sorry about mentioning deceptive lower astral spirits. they are not a problem really, can be blown away with PUL reball.

forget I said anything about it.