Today I had a few dreams, some involving my ex-girlfriend but I don't feel those have any real importance. The important dream went as follows:

I was outside of a house and I suddenly realized I was in a dream. I have been reading about lucid dreaming on the net so I sort of felt like the dream was leaving since I realized it was a dream... so I did the technique which is listed which is to spin around in the dream. When I was done I decided to fly so I leaped into the air.
(Please note that I usually have a problem flying in dreams.)
I went higher and higher and defied gravity... It turned out to be a very high jump...about the height or more so of a building.
I screamed NO, This is MY DREAM. I CAN FLY.
Normally in a dream you are aware of this means you can do anything...

I slowly fell back to the Earth.

When I landed the evil guy was there with other misc. people I cannot bring to mind. I then remembered one of my other focus's/goals in dreaming... Meeting a guide. I yelled that I wanted my helper. The evil guy laughed and said there is no helper.

(Unfortunately I forgot to call out for the loved one that I also wish to meet in my dreams.)

Then I ran into the house. The evil guy sent two sexy female vampires after me. I was able to fend them off but I am pretty sure they're goal was not to kill me but to convert me and I felt a sexual feeling from them. Regardless I evaded them and ran out of the house.

Next stop is just complete fantasy. I was running away and I came to a huge dock area / bunker which I ran in and saw the commander in charge. I said I need my helper!!!!! I don't think they told me anything but they gave me a hand held device and When I looked into it I was able control a ship.... We were under attack by the evil guy. I flew my ship....the millennium falcon... and blasted the crap out of the bad guys that were coming. That is about it... I woke up...

My confusion in this dream is that I 100% realized I was in a dream and that anything is possible.

Why would no one come to help me when I called?
Why was I still unable to fly?

I agree with Bets.

It is interesting that the evil guy used sexy women vampires. This shows that the choice is yours, rather than his. He can try to tempt you or con you into choosing his side, but in the end it is your choice.

A helper didn't come to your rescue, because your helpers wanted you to learn that as long as you choose love and light over darkness, you will be okay.

Gosh, Terethian, I don't know about the helpers. I had a lucid dream last night. I vividly remember being with a companion and insisting vehemently that this was a dream. I was pointing out to my companion the items in the dream which I knew were not real. I was very excited that I was lucid and I was determined to convince this companion. It was actually fun, to make the connection. I wish I could remember more, but I know I was lucid.

Great work, Terethian! It seems like you kept your wits about you. I find it interesting that you could remember to ask for helpers.  I don't know why it's so hard to fly. I have flown a number of times in dreams and am quite familiar with a feeling of drifting down when I really would have liked to continue. Either that, or I wrap myself around some other kind of weirdness, and there goes the fun with flying....

love, blink