Justin aka asltaomr
Ex Member
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Dunno Alysia. I like this board a lot on a personality level, and it seems to be unusually fast vibrating and balanced (in a collective sense), but at the same time i kind of have a feeling or attitude of, "one place is as good as another", because to me, it's not so much where you are, but how you are living and being.
If one relies more on that, then one could be happy, fulfilled, in and at almost any place, condition, group, etc.
But, i agree, this board can and does help people and is perhaps more efficient and balanced in this regard than a percentage of other sites out there.
At some point on everyone's spiritual path, they come to the realization that they can either go within for true joy, peace, etc, or they can keep playing the illusion game of relying on things and conditions outside of self, whether it be a particular place, particular people, particular groups, etc, for happiness. There are very subtle forms of what i call, "spiritual materialism" which are hard to see.
Problem with the latter tendency of trying obtain happiness through conditions and things outside of self, is that you always need more of it, and it's like a drug fix, a momentary high, but one which leaves you feeling kind of off after the initial high wears out. Then, of course, a person needs another fix and its a never ending cycle until a person finally says "enough" and really means it.
I use to look for and deeply desired to be surrounded by "like minded and hearted" folks a lot more, but i view Retrievals in a much broader scope than just afterlife retrievals. It seems i get the most joy and fulfillment lately, in being around and with those who aren't of like mind and heart though sometimes its more challenging, unlike with many of the folks here who are more of like mind and heart.
Yeshua said it pretty well, when he said, "those who are whole, need not a physician." Most people here have the right tools, beliefs, and ideals to learn how to help themselves more and more. Hence i wouldn't say that my time here is all that important or helpful, and i'm mostly here because i'm still yet human and still desire some of that like minded and hearted interaction.
It's like pretty much anything in life, there needs to be a balance.
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