Hi Stacy,

Nice to hear from you, except not on that topic. No one needs a pest.

Advice once given me on this problem is to firmly state   "I see you not there!"
That phrase has alot of power because it's been used through the centuries by Buddhists (in other languages), if I recall correctly.

Also, Have you asked for help from Guidance or Higher? This predicament could be allowed by your helping spirits to give you a lesson in the need to acknowledge higher sources of help and information. If you have asked respectfully, firmly and with focus and no help has been given, you might have to experiment with their names until you get a response.

I'll add my thoughts to yours tonight  to see if that gets through to him.

Best wishes, Bets

Hi there miss daisy,

I'd say Bets is on the right track...perhaps bring in someone else to help you in the physical. What I mean is, a friend, locally, or several.

I would ask your Guidance to lead you to that person or persons, and quickly.

And then start talking to your uninvited "friend" and let him know that reinforcements are on the way, that you won't put up with his presence in this manner anymore.

love, blink

Hey Daisy-

I have used the "seeing him not there" successfully.

I have also seen such spirits as smaller and smaller, and then I put their tiny self into a light proof and very tight bag, and put it into my "box within my box" (energy containment box in Monroe speak), where it is locked away for all time and space. My big bix opens automatically when I come back to C-1, but the little "box within my box" never opens. Once inside, the spirit is captured forever in the Void.

I have had what I experience as an evil energy probing around for some time (someone whose name you would recognize), but I just laugh and say, "Begone! You have no power over me!" It works.

I hopee one of these does work for you. The more you think about it the more it grows (this is the Law of Attraction) even if you do not want it. So (and this sounds so stupid), don't think about it.

It really does have no power over you, you know.

Thomas

Greetings Volu, and Welcome!

Effective and beautiful concept! 

You seem to have already had the TMI training, so I know there are many many here who will welcome your comments and insights. Have you done any retirievals yet that you would be willing to share with us?

Bets

In what Monroe called the Preparatory Process, one creates a resonant enery ballon, a REBALL, of energy and protection before starting any process, even just meditating on Focus 10 (Mind Awake, Body Asleep i More speak).

It involves visualizing your body in a ball of golden energy, He describes it as a channel of energy and light coming up the spine and out the crown chakra, circling around and reentering your base chakra or through your feet, forming a TORUS shape (looks like a fat doughnut). Barbara Brennan (the healer-teacher) and other healing techniques call this the 7th layer, and it is often described as eggshell-like. It is you, as orb.

And for you New Age folks, we used to ask Archangel Michael to protect us with his golden cloak and sword of Truth and Justice. IT is some very powerful protection.

And then, when it happened to me, I stood and said, simply, "Be gone. You have no power over me!" And so it is. It worked fine.

Love and Light,

Thomas

daiseymae,
"He refuses a retrival...can this be forced?"

I can understand good intentions, but if someone doesn't want help, that's it. So, my guess is that this spirit sees you as an unwanted spirit, and wants to be left alone. Force in this case sounds controlling to me.