Hi Gweexldax,

You said it yourself when you said:
" In time, I want to feel more comfortable, and help someone."

It sounds like you are in training, and when your spiritual guidance feels you are ready to step into an afterlife situation where help is needed, you'll get thaose assignments too.  Most of the retrievals that are done with Bruce Moen's methods are assigned by spiritual guidance, so we all just have to develop through whatever steps we're given.

Have you read "Necessary Skills" and Retrieval Archives" (listed up at the top of this page) ? There's probably some info in those that would help point you in the right direction. Our host Bruce Moen wrote those and he has an excellent way of getting through to the afterlife.

Enjoy those happy moments in the afterlife!

Love, Bets