sometimes the notifications ended up in my bulk folder where everything gets deleted. I just now changed that selection to keep all bulk mail for one week so I can see if my spam filter was collecting this mail. will let u know what happens but maybe since my cache was emptied recently I lost a cookie...
update: found a notification of a pm from conversation board in my bulk folder this morn which was getting deleted immediately. so changed it over there and saving my spam mail for a week now. I had changed in my profile to be informed of pms. a new feature on the profile thought I'd try. have yet to see if other AKC notes are landing there. thanks, alysia
further update: it is working ok. it was my spam filter all this time and yahoo had a button for "not spam". so I'm all set.