hi Indilgo..don't worry about flat jokes..happens to me all the time, then I found out I'm the only one who thinks I'm cute
I later surmised that posting on a forum people can read you wrong because they can't see the twinkle in your eye or your hand gestures and the way I sometimes fall out of my chair at something someone said...they also can't hear your voice..full of nuances of expression. its too bad we can't all gather together physically, I'm sure it would be fun and relaxing.
I've been reading you and I also misunderstood your joke at first. then I read where you said afterlife=anti-drug. thought about that. thought you meant that you are so interested in the afterlife that taking drugs does not interest you. I kinda like that!
listen, hold on to your sense of humor, I think we are going to need it after we're dead too!
love, alysia