my opinion this is good work as you got a message and these two gentlemen represent the message bearers. sometimes people in dreams who have differentiating characteristics can be traced to our family tree. It would be interesting to set another intention, return in imagination to the scene and ask what they mean by disaster. the only thing that comes to mind about the word disaster is (this example of imagination) folks who pass this way (a choice of the higher self for experience) are generally feeling unprepared and traumatized by the suddeness of the transition even though they are the ones who pull the plug. they may take all the time they need to adjust before they start surfing around for their connections, a sort of process of life review. our connections are so strong they cannot be broken by death. I hope you get your proof soon and feel you will I've noted in my own dreams at times that messages such as this have something to do with the way I'm perceiving the situation, that if a guide asks me a question, they most often want me to look within myself and see the blockage I have set up by non-belief. they usually want me to redefine something so that the question about disasters points to your own ideas about mom as concerning her transistion and these ideas make it very difficult for her to approach you even if she wants to. you did good though as at least you have something to work with now to go for greater contact, maybe even verification will occur. it took me 4 years to get all the verification I needed to feel that what I was doing was genuine and valid and beneficial, so be patient maybe pick up an exploration partner somewhere. that helped me a lot. love, alysia