I'm not sure why this is. But I'm sure there's an explanation. I had something similiar happen to me in a dream recently. Odd...

Hey Lydia,

The first impression that came to me from your post is Tim isn't mad at you, completely the opposite, hes acting like this because he needs to do things now as well as you and grieving is hindering the progress. I know you just can't stop grieving like that but for both of you and specially you with needing more sleep (I know what thats like) its time to try and work on how to go forward. Once we can do this  we can move forwards, but not on, he will always be there for you, he just has his learning to do as well. Its all a learning experience for everyone. He would hate to see you like this, I think this is his way to try and help you through this.

Ryan

P.S: I think this came out completly wrong so I'm sorry but hope it helps.