Haven't had hardly any memory of oob interactions since childhood,but one individual I had worked with 20 some years agowas always on my mind since he passed away in'90.I was at an appointment and picked up a newspaper section which opened up to obits and read where a woman we both had known had passed over.She was aware of more than being human so had advance awareness of certain protocols I'm assuming.He-was sensitive enough to learn but usually had many other things on his mind,and was aware of his upcoming departure without any furthur knowledge.This bothered me greatly.I tryed to contact him,but his family was reluctant to provide info on his condition and allow him friendship.I'm sure this blocked his progress.Anyhoo-I appeared 21 years later in front of him as he was seemingly performing his duties behind the customer counter looking as it was when we worked together 27 years ago.He appeared confused as I popped in.I had with me (conveniently) the newspaper obits about she whom we had known and I said she will be here shortly to help you.Then I popped out (of awareness?)I was very glad to be consciously aware of this ongoing retrieval though I was one player of many (had to be).He needed both I who was among the living and she whom he had known in many fun comfortable social gatherings to convince and show him a way to get on with life.Apparently part of me is active within different spheres of living and I haven't been focused enough to realise it.It would be nice when all my helpers are recogniseable to me at most times while I'm here.Tom