i see my dads spirit so many times,especially when im at my most down,ive seen him ever since he died 10yrs ago,i worry sometimes that i am stopping him moving on to other things in the spiritworld,as mom told me the other day,that he told her just before he died,that he was so worried about me,as my marriage then was very unhappy.

i love him so much and i don't want to stand in his way,but it worries me that i am,ive been thinking about him so much lately and i am inm tears now writing this,but i felt that i had to play this this morning for my dad as he loved this when he was here,i remember we watched this movie together,he was so loving and kind to the animal kingdom,he loved the wolves,always said how beautiful they were and how so many beautiful things on this earth are being destroyed.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sCcVmCMRjn4&feature=related

this for you my darling dad,love you so much and miss you R.I.P xxxx

  i really miss him ,more than ever and im worried im holding him back,i dont want to,just finding it hard to let go at the moment. i just can't stop crying about him today.my beautiful loving dad,one of the best.

love god bless  love juditha xxx

I don't think you hold him back.

I think you can allow yourself to sense his presence. I also think that
he is there to help you, so if you need energy some days to do what
you are here on Earth to do, your task. Just ask for him to give you
some energy and accept into you what he gives you. That will help
you on many levels.

I have the impression that he helps you as much as he can.

hi paulieffect   thankyou for writing back to me,i really needed those words you have written,i feel now that i can go on feeling dad's presence,knowing that he is ok and thats he's trying to help me through the down times,thanks again paul,you have really helped me.

love and god bless  love juditha

Hi Juditha,

Your dad may have taken on the "job" of watching over you in spirit.  My understanding is that an incarnate person on earth holds a spirit back if their grief is unending, and they (the person on earth) continue to grieve instead of live their lives. 

Since spirit never dies, your dad is with you now and will always be there, just not in the physical world. We may catch glimpses of our loved ones who pass, and sometimes have real meetings as we relax our minds and use methods like Bruce's to make contact. 

Whether he is showing himself to you to comfort you, or for a need of his own, it only matters that you return it with love, and make sure you are living your life with love, and making him proud. 


Love,

Matthew

A few minutes ago I got some info. It may or may not apply to you,
as I don't think I have the right skill to judge what I was fed.


1. The man I sensed, who seemed to be your father, said to me
that if or when you cry, he will always be there to help you. He also
says that he has been there on all occasions when you have cried.
(I really don't know how I shall interpret the word "all", but that is
the word he wanted me to use.)

If or when you cry again, you may cry as much as you want,
there doesn't seem to be any restriction on what you do or how you
express your feelings. He just wants to say that if or when you cry,
he is there for you, close by.

In fact he says that he is always with you and if you feel you have
a hard time, he wants you to ask for his help in any way, emotionally or
otherwise, and he will give his help to you and give you any kind of
emotional strength you need.


2. If things seem to have been hard for you and you have asked for help
and not gotten any help, he says that there are reasons for that. Perhaps that
there is not the help present which you need, in form of other humans/incarnates,
or the help available around you is inappropriate for the tasks you are
to do here on Earth. If you get the wrong help, it will not be helpful
for you in a "total" meaning (whatever "total" means, I don't know).

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I want you to take my words with a grain of salt, based on the circumstance
I was fed this info. I was taking a shower and received this info during
that shower, so there are probably room for many interpretations.

Thanks Paul so much for this message from my dad,i'm so happy to receive this,he was always there for me in the physical and now i know he is there for me in spirit,i was so close to my darling dad in life,thankyou so much paul   love juditha xx

God bless you with love and light.

thankyou matthew for your words of love and encouragement you have written to me and i will  try to live my life with love to make him proud,you have made me feel so much more positive now in my thoughts,thankyou matthew so much  love juditha xx

God bless you with love and light