This is the first time I've posted a message and hope that somebody can help.  My friend's wife left him with 4 young children - they are now 13, 11, 9 and 7 years old.  The wife has now re-appeared and there is a custody dispute which is being handled by the court.  The problem is that now, the children are being so terribly and hatefully manipulated by the mother, that the father tells me that it seems as though the children are totally possessed by a malevolent entity.  The childrens' behaviour is really bad, including defecating on the floor and orderng the father to clear it up.  Their language would do a wharfie proud and they are just wrecking their home - let alone what they are doing to their father!  Because I'm so close to the father (we've been doing spiritual work for 20 years), I don't want to investigate myself, even though we've done rescues in the past.

This is the situation in a nutshell.  I have asked permission of my friend to seek help through this forum and he has granted it. 

Could you please help, because the situation is really serious.

Thank you.
Sara   

Welcome to this forum, Sara. I have a couple of questions. Why does the father not make the request himself, anonymously? Why are all four individual children, who are in the midst of a custody dispute, lumped together and assumed to be 'possessed' collectively?

I don't question your caring motives, but I question the assessment of the situation. Maybe someone else would have a different interpretation, but I am personally wary of such a scenario. Something about it just doesn't feel right to me.

Thank you for your welcome B2.  In answer to your email:  The father does not have access to the internet and is not aware of this site or any other one for that matter.

The reason that all four children seem to be 'lumped together' is that all of the children are displaying the same violent type of behaviour. 

My friend and I have been  doing esoteric work for the past 20 odd years and have done rescues in past times.  The eldest child has been picking up negative energies for at least the last 5 years and these have been cleared.  My friend spoke with his son yesterday and the child said that he had been seeing a man standing in the second bedroom - my friend confirmed that he had seen the man, also.  The other children have not reported seeing entities.

We understand that the children   have become confused and angry due to the ex-wife's litigation (she left the children to go overseas for a year with another man), but the behaviour that they are displaying is far more than anger, confusion, sorrow, etc.

My friend and I are far too close to the situation to look at this situation clearly.  I presented this to the group, to see if somebody could confirm (or otherwise) whether we were dealing with a physical problem or an esoteric one.

I thank you for replying.  If there is a delay in my reply, its because I'm in Australia and there is a bit of a time lag.


Regards
Sara

I haven't yet a nonphysical view on this, as I do such things rarely lately.
I think though it's possible that this behaviour can be explained by a traumatization of the children. That her mother left them for a year is one shock, that she reappeared is a second shock. Typically, especially children feel at least partly responsible, guilty, when one of their parents leave. For some children it's too much. When the mother reappeared, and who knows what she then told the children, it could have caused a re-direction of their feelings of guilt, now projected onto their father, an explosion which is an attempt to break free from the guilt and the mess in their thoughts. When the children are educated in spiritual things, they maybe could use conceptions as "possession" and such as a means to express themselves.
   I very strongly recommend to ask for professional help, the best would be an experienced specialist in children's and juvenile psychotherapy. I hope the health care system in Australia can provide that help.

Spooky

Thank you Spooky2.  The children are seeing psychlogists, both through their school and the Court.  I thank you for your comments regarding the children being traumatised - it doesn't help with the mother sending text messages constantly.  Anyway, I posted to this site, just in case anybody could see what was happening.  As I said previously, I'm too close to the situation. Thanks again for your wise words.  I appreciate you help.
Thank you,
Sara

This sounds like a pretty serious problem going on here. Professional help is obviously needed, for both the kids and both parents. There is a reason for kids acting out like this and there may be a form of child abuse involved here. My advise for your friend is to stick it out. Show love and acceptance towards the children and know that one day things will become better.

Thank you, Hawkeye.  My friend is certainly sticking it out for the sake of his children.  He is the only stable part of their lives.
Sara