Like many others, I'd rather not. I'd rather remain with my LOVED ONES from this life forever!!!! Or at least be able to return to them in heavenly realms after my next incarnation!
What do you think?

Of course.  But remember that both of you may need to follow a different path eventually for growth purpose.  

From Bruce's books, Bob Monroe is still with his loved one in the afterlife.  

would you reincarnate with them if they desided to do so, or stay in the heavenly realms waiting for their return to you there?  

Justine:

Since the spirit World is guided by love I don't believe that you need to worry. Events will work out as they need to work out.

PhantasyMan- if we needed to take a different path for growth purposes, do you think we could reunite later?
Hawkeye- I would reincarnate with them if we could still come back to the heavenly realms together
Recoverer- thanks for the reassurance! :)
It may not sound spiritual, but my life partner and I want to stay together as much as we possibly can in the afterlife!

oh and by the way, after three and a half years together, we talk all the time about how much we have helped each other grow :)
she is grateful to me for helping her recover her spirituality, and i to her for helping teach me that love for both people and causes is hard work
:)

I have a question regarding meeting and staying with your loved ones in the afterlife. My father was married and much in love with his first wife before she died. He re-married and I was one of the children he had with my mother, his second wife. She has since died as well. My dad now 83 lives with me and my wife. She loves me very much and was married once before to a man who she loved and was killed. So once I told her that it was ok for her to look for him when she dies as I understand and appreciate her feelings for him. So who do we end up with? Am I and my mother going to share our loved ones with previous loved ones? I have no problem with this -just something I was wondering about... :-?

Mark, There is the possibility that they may all end up together. There may be a connection between all of you, spiritually. Love is an extremely powerful bond. I think one of the most important statements in your post was your acceptance of her love towards her first husband. The one who is not your Dad. It should also be noted that it is not necessarily important for them to meet up at all in the afterlife. Some or perhaps all of them may well be incarnated again with new or more pressing needs than to revisit this earthly existence.
Joe

 Well said, and nice reply Joe.  

i 2nd it.

Well said Joe. My wife recently came across a picture of her and her first husband, who is also the father of her first born son who I love and am very proud of. I insisted she display it with our other family pictures. I do not in any way feel threatened by this person and would very much like to meet him in the here after. Maybe you are correct, perhaps I have already met him and have some eternal bond. We will see...

Mark-
I am truly hoping to avoid another physical body, and have put a great deal of my energy in to exploring alternatives to the merry-go-round of reincarnation. I love my family, and my friends, and take great joy in the children, but I simply would rather not keep doing this over and over and over.

What Monroe called Focus 27 is a giant recycling center geared to the Human Thought System which functions to populate the planet according to Monroe. It is possible to move on past such recycling (was that not Jesus' point after all?). And so, yes. Bruce also suggests as does Monroe that there are many non-physicals here in C-1 as well, as well as many who seem to serve on Focus 27 and stay there for a time before they "wink out."

Thomas

I am leaving this miserable mortal life forever when i die. I am not coming back never ever

Alan

There is something that happens here on Earth, and I like it.

You know, when you haven't seen a friend for a long time. Then, you see your friend, and it seems like no time has passed.

That's kind of fun.

love, blink

I wonder of the significance of reincarnation. Is the reason we continue to come back and redo the ELS  for us, or for the bigger picture? Personally, as my new overview regarding the ELS is about service, thanks in part to programs at TMI, I no longer feel that this lifetime is about me, nor have any of the past lifetimes. They and this one have been about how I have effected others and the changes that have resulted in my actions. Some better, some not so good. But if I was to decide that I was not prepaired to offer my assistance in the ELS then my incarnation would be of little importance. I beleave you do not come to earth and pick up one of these bodies in an effort to better yourself, but as a means of bettering others of your disk group and towards those who are in need of assistance. To say you do not want to come back is fine and many times i have said the same thing. Is experiencing the ELS for us? Or for others? I hope that all of us who no longer desire existing in the ELS again have completed their reasons for being here in the first place as once you step out of the line you may find it difficult to come back and complete or gather any missing parts. I think I will hang around as long as it takes to finish what is required of me. We may well be towards a pinacel of spiritual awareness and transformation on this little wet world. If its not going to happen this round of my many lives it just might be the next one. Most likely, only once this physical life is over, will I know if I have done what is nessassary for continued movement by the All of me. Personally, I will make my desision then.
Joe  

What are C1 and Focus 27?
Also, Alan, where do you plan to go?

C1 : Physical Reality
Focus 27 : A nonphysical area which is shaped partly like the physical for those who have physically died, and are not too much closed-minded in their beliefs. Teaching, rest, recreation, reviews of the physical and it's characteristics as well as outlooks to nonphysical evolution are provided there. And meetings with friends, of course.

Spooky