Post by Nanner on Feb 1st, 2008 at 9:31am
Most of us worry. We worry about our jobs, our children …
and what the neighbours think and the secret worry is: the "Afterlife"!
Some people will even tell me, "You SHOULD worry!" death "hurts"...
Well, I try to educate myself on NDE`s, ADC`s, OBE`s and lets see.... the 1,2,3`s..lol..
But worrying is WORSE THAN USELESS!
Firstly, I find it attracts misfortune!
Secondly, it is bad for my health!
So what should you do about worry?
Do what I do best in such a case: Postpone it! Yes, postpone worrying!
In this "spectrum of things" the male species works at its best, on a daily basis..lol..
In ancient times, the male went out to hunt, he fought seemingly fearlessly, didnt worry about
the big friggin jaws of that lion he was about to face, nor did he ponder upon the pain which the lion could inflict. YOU MEN ARE JUST GREAT in such teachings! You have that certain instinct... of in some cases postponing important things (like postponing to pay the phonebilland then telling your wife "knowing that shes always on the phoneline, that its not important - aha but we women got smart and talkedto a fella named Bill Gates whom inturn made it possible for men to finially "need a phone line" of some sort - see at the end we women always get what we want.. ;-) )
Take action FIRST ...
and postpone worry indefinitely.
That’s what most effective people do.
Thats a lesson which we can all learn from our fellow "man"..
Whenever you want to worry, ask yourself, "What is the problem right this second?"
Guess what you’ll find …Unless you are in a life threatening situation,
you don't have a problem!
and if your in a life threatening situation, you still dont have a problem - if you got educated.
Of course, disasters do happen.
Illness happens. Financial crises happen.
That’s no reason to live life like a frightened rabbit.
The key is, I would suppose, "education".
Education eleviates the worry.
When you come to understand processes, then its easier to handle.
So if we are all here in this board to get educated from another, then
I find that really great!
When crises come, I can deal with them MOMENT BY MOMENT.
It's only when your mind drifts into the future that it crushes you, if one is not educated.
And your mind will want to drag you into the future!
Stay in the present!
Do whatever you can do today - and leave worry out of it.
Look at your life. Has there ever been a situation that you didn't survive? There hasn't! You can handle the present. It's just the future that gives you trouble!
When it comes to worry, educate but procrastinate!
When someone asks, "Aren't you worried about that?" tell them, "I've been meaning to worry about it – but I didn't get around to it!"
Or otherwise you`ll look like this when crossing over.
and what the neighbours think and the secret worry is: the "Afterlife"!
Some people will even tell me, "You SHOULD worry!" death "hurts"...
Well, I try to educate myself on NDE`s, ADC`s, OBE`s and lets see.... the 1,2,3`s..lol..
But worrying is WORSE THAN USELESS!
Firstly, I find it attracts misfortune!
Secondly, it is bad for my health!
So what should you do about worry?
Do what I do best in such a case: Postpone it! Yes, postpone worrying!
In this "spectrum of things" the male species works at its best, on a daily basis..lol..
In ancient times, the male went out to hunt, he fought seemingly fearlessly, didnt worry about
the big friggin jaws of that lion he was about to face, nor did he ponder upon the pain which the lion could inflict. YOU MEN ARE JUST GREAT in such teachings! You have that certain instinct... of in some cases postponing important things (like postponing to pay the phonebilland then telling your wife "knowing that shes always on the phoneline, that its not important - aha but we women got smart and talkedto a fella named Bill Gates whom inturn made it possible for men to finially "need a phone line" of some sort - see at the end we women always get what we want.. ;-) )
Take action FIRST ...
and postpone worry indefinitely.
That’s what most effective people do.
Thats a lesson which we can all learn from our fellow "man"..
Whenever you want to worry, ask yourself, "What is the problem right this second?"
Guess what you’ll find …Unless you are in a life threatening situation,
you don't have a problem!
and if your in a life threatening situation, you still dont have a problem - if you got educated.
Of course, disasters do happen.
Illness happens. Financial crises happen.
That’s no reason to live life like a frightened rabbit.
The key is, I would suppose, "education".
Education eleviates the worry.
When you come to understand processes, then its easier to handle.
So if we are all here in this board to get educated from another, then
I find that really great!
When crises come, I can deal with them MOMENT BY MOMENT.
It's only when your mind drifts into the future that it crushes you, if one is not educated.
And your mind will want to drag you into the future!
Stay in the present!
Do whatever you can do today - and leave worry out of it.
Look at your life. Has there ever been a situation that you didn't survive? There hasn't! You can handle the present. It's just the future that gives you trouble!
When it comes to worry, educate but procrastinate!
When someone asks, "Aren't you worried about that?" tell them, "I've been meaning to worry about it – but I didn't get around to it!"
