I was just thinking as I was reading through a few posts here and I'm curious as to your responses.

I remember when my bf passed and I was in a tremendous amount of grief.  I was grieving for a long time actually, but it didn't interfere with my communications from him.  I had many dreams where he came to me and he came to me a lot in my waking life also.  I felt him, heard him and received many signs from him which some will call synchronocity.  

I will admit that although I believed it was him communicating with me, I sometimes wondered if it was all my grief that was bringing all that on.  I now know it wasn't, but it took me relaying messages to others for him and them being able to confirm it for me.  I was able to communicate things there was no way I could have known and it freaked some out and in one particular case it took 2 years for his brother to admit to me that i was right and stopped me from thinking I was losing my mind.  

I've heard over the years people telling people that once they release their grieving, they will be better able to receive the communications.  I don't necessarily believe that.   I mean I know it's not healthy for us to continue grieving over our loved ones and it's not what they want for us, but I tend to think that in those grieving moments we are able to express and feel the real love for that person which opens it up for us.  I know that has only been my experience.  I know also that we don't have to be in a grieving state to experience our loved ones communicating with us.  Guess I'm king of confused how it all happens, but i'm good with knowing that it does... : )

I was going to end this, but what just came to me, is that I used to be able to get into a meditative trance state at the drop of a hat.  Maybe it was more being in that state, than actually grieving, but i was doing both at the same time.  I also know from seeing a Reiki Master that I'm a good candidate for hypnosis and the such as I get into that state very quickly...apparently he was able to tell because of how my eyes flutter or something, i don't really remember.

Ok i'm just rambling now...lol These are just my thoughts that i wanted to share and see what others think on the idea.

Have a good day everyone,
Lea

Hi Lea-
Thanks for sharing that.

Most of us tune out anything not customary in the everyday world. Evidently you were emotionally connected and were willing to accept what you received. That's great!

dave