Hi i was sitting in my garden in the afternoon and my husband who was standing there,i saw a black cloaked spirit standing next to him and he had his hand on his shoulder and this spirit started to recite these words to me for him in the laungue of rhymes.

The words were very old sounding and i cant remember all that this dark spirit said but some of the words were of a warning to my husband.

This is some of the words what i can remember.

Do not boast,as thou will find out,thou shall see,what thou has done,take heed of these words or thou will find thyself,coming to a bad end.Take thy words and heed this warning.

I wonder what you think as i wish i had written these words down now,as i got them,there was much more than this said to me,i just wish i could remember.

This spirit who gave me these words of many , it seemed to me that he was giving a warning to him to change his ways,as we are in the process of divorceing.

Love and God bless        Love Juditha

It sounds a bit ominous.  The words certainly match up with the dark spirit.  I’ve read that sometimes spirits will wear cloaks because without them we might be blinded by the light.

Going through a divorce is tense and difficult for most people.  Folks seem to go through something like a life review but with a divorce it’s a marriage review.  While you’d think reviews would include both the good and the bad, in a divorce all too often our emotions bring out the bad things, probably because those are the things we ignored and had difficulty dealing with.  

The words also sound ominous but when you think about them, they are just advice that all of us could benefit from:  we should always be mindful of what we have done and what we do; if we don’t or “if we boast” that would be bad.  

A divorce is hard to go through, my little crumpet.  You’re in my thoughts and prayers.

Love - Rob

I second Rob's sentiment, dear Judith. Having recently divorced I agree with him regarding the "life review" process that can occur.  I look at it as a sort of rebirthing, and I advise keeping a journal throughout this entire process because as you separate from your husband you are also opening up yourself to a larger self, a new self, and much of the past which has been repressed in order to keep the marriage in place will surface.  Revelations will come...they did for me.

Divorce, now that I have experienced it, is a great learning experience for both partners. But do not ever forget what brought you together, and try to keep your good memories...and try to be kind....but do, please take care of yourself.

There will be times when you wonder if you are doing the right thing...it is okay.  There are many paths in our lives and we are allowed to choose which ones we will take.

Growing pains.....oh, sometimes they do hurt, but much good can come from them.

In my meditation last night I saw some dark shadows moving around me. I was deep in a wonderful state of being. I was able to watch these dark shadows move around me and I was slightly curious but focused on my intention.

Interesting, that perhaps the dark shadows were not negative in nature.  I certainly felt no fear or negativity from them.  

much love, blink :)

Blink!
I guess because you were "LOVING" or "wonderful state" as you put it,   the "negative" or "dark" whatever-they-were shadows wanted nothing to do with you or you didn't have what "they" wanted.  Seems to be the case with me , too.

Isn't it wonderful! :)

As to divorce, the 2 people that wrote before me, have the right idea.  Divorce was a painful experience, that took me many years to get my head straight about it.  I keep thinking that "she" would "wake up" and see what a "great" guy I was.  

The opposite happened, after many years I was able to see that we just grew apart because I wasn't into what she was doing, and she wasn't into what I was doing. Anything Spiritual put her right to sleep. And stuff she was interested in bored me.  Although, in beginning of relationship we both were into doing the same stuff and had a WONDERFUL TIME together doing it! :)

Problem was at time of divorce, I closed my HEART , and was too afraid to OPEN it for many years, for FEAR I would get hurt again.  Worst mistake I could have made, and created depression and dark times.  I OPEN my HEART for me now, because it's good for me, and by LOVING EVERYONE at all times (including, animals, plants,tree's,ect...  I couldn't care less if someone doesn't "love" me back at all (I just see that person has a closed heart, like I used to have) . I had it all backwards, I was only going to "LOVE" the "right" person, but in my search everyone always had something wrong with them, so I never "loved" anyone.  NOT ANYMORE!  LESSON LEARNED! :)

P.S. Loving someone doesn't mean I have to do what they say I should do, to show them I love them, it just means I send out the same energy I receive and do what FEELS RIGHT in MY HEART, not what someone else's ego thinks I should do!  FREEDOM!

you're a cool, loving guy Richman..I see good coming to you :) and Juditha, you already got good advice and you are a divine little crumpet must not crumble.

there are relationships not meant to last. some short, some long, we release each other to freedom, not to be possessive, but grateful we had the time together.

love, alysia

Hi Rob aylsia richman and blink  Thankyou for your kind loving words you have all written to me,I will try not to crumble aylsia and as im a little crumpet Rob i will make sure i will stay with my crumpets for breakfast.

We will have celestial tea with celestial crumpets,when we are in the spirit world together one day.

Love and God bless you all   Love juditha

Celestial tea and crumpets.  Can't beat it! - Rob