My 17 yr old daughter charmaine keeps getting visitations from spirit i am sure she is becoming a medium ,she is getting used to it now and she is not frightened by her experiences at all but all shes interested in at the moment is her college course what she is taking i dont think she wants to be a medium ,do you think spirit realise this ,anyone got any views on this  love deanna

Hi Deanna, I used to know a medium who had desired instead to become an artist but the same thing happened to him as your daughter, as he was persuaded he was needed in another field and he had agreed to do this service for humanity.
then he just put off his wants until another time and he was very good at what he did. I think your daughter to start so young may turn out to be very good. She may pray for guidance and wisdom through this and follow her own heart what's best. she may have agreed before incarnation.
love, alysia

Dear Deanna,

When your daughter is older hopefully she will see what a gift she been given. She is still young and probably surprised since she didn't consciously choose such a gift.  She is capable of having a job as well as this gift, I believe.
Congratulations for giving her the kind of love and support that allow her to share her concerns with you.

Love,
Bets

What is she going to college for?  If it's art, social work, probably a number of other things that don't come to mind just now, it might be very possible to combine the two successfully.  Maybe that's why she's experiencing mediumistic "stuff" now...so she'll be thinking along those lines as she studies.